Being married, there's no way I can trim myself without raising suspicion. As  result, most providers decline said action.

For me, all the activities you describe can be part of a mind-blowing BJ experience, but I've had mind blowing experiences without either. No question, however, that guys will flock to you because of your passion. Where did you say you were located? -

Re: Dr. Ciara, What is your take on

Definitely an added pleasure - not usually expected but a lot of fun when I surprised by a little invasion down there.  My guess is that you are VERY good at what you do!

A light pat on the head is all they need to make them happy.  For the main action, they defer to their big brother Dick.

(Dick thinks that they're nuts.)

As far playing with the balls, it is probably best to start out gentle and ask if he likes more pressure.  Myself, I prefer a very gentle touch, just an attempt to tickle rather than hold them.  More forceful play does nothing for me.  In fact ball sucking doesn't do much either, though I do like to look down and see a pair of beautiful eyes looking up at me.  

You're right that the so-called taint is very sensitive and I find a very soft touch there satisfying.  But I prefer it go no further.  No tongue, certainly no fingers.  It makes me very uncomfortable.  Not sure why, but I just don't associate that area with pleasure.

Complications
STDs: Rimming has no risk of transmitting HIV -- unless your partner bites you or you have open sores. Hepatitis A can be spread during rimming, but a vaccination will protect you from this terrible infection. There are other STDs commonly spread during rimming: gonorrhea, herpes and condyloma.

Parasites: Parasites are a frequent complication of rimming. No matter how hard you scrub your partner's anus, you will not remove all of the parasite eggs; they are microscopic. Your partner may not have any symptoms of infection and may unknowingly pass it on to you. Giardia lamblia and Entamoeba histolytica are the most common parasites spread during rimming. Giardia lamblia causes a condition known generally as giardia and it is the most common parasitic infection in the U.S. The parasite lives in your small intestine and its cysts (eggs) leave your body with your stool. If you ingest these cysts the organism will grow in your small intestine. You might not have any symptoms or you might experience upper abdominal pain, non-bloody diarrhea and nausea. If you have these symptoms, discuss a parasite test with your doctor. An antibiotic, Metronidazole (flagyl), cures the infection.

Amebiaisis or amebic dysentery is another common parasitic infection passed during rimming. This parasite lives in your colon and its eggs leave your body in your stool. Although you may be symptom free, many people complain of crampy abdominal pain, bloody diarrhea, and fever. Doctors diagnose the infection by examining your stool or with a positive blood test for parasite antibodies. Metronidazole (flagyl) cures the infection.

Infectious diarrhea: As with parasites, diarrhea-causing bacteria can leave your partner's colon and enter your body during rimming. No matter how hard you scrub the anus you will not sterilize it and these microscopic bacteria will be left behind. Your partner may not have any symptoms and won't know if you catch it. The most common types of diarrhea-causing bacteria are Salmonella, Shigella and Campylobacter. They cause crampy abdominal pain, diarrhea (can be bloody), fever and vomiting. Most often these infections run their course and go away. Antibiotics are not often recommended, except in the most severe cases or in people with HIV, because they can cause you to become a chronic carrier (someone who never gets rid of the infection and can pass it on to others; chronic carriers do not feel sick). Ciprofloxacin (Cipro) is an antibiotic commonly used to treat infectious diarrhea.

Skin infections: If your partner cuts, scrapes or bites your skin, cleanse the area well with an antibacterial soap. Soaking in warm water also helps to reduce the chances of infection. Repeat this several times a day until healing occurs. If swelling, pain or redness develops, see your doctor.


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he's got enough of a Napoleon Complex as it is.

Personally, I don't care for rimming, but ball play is great if gentle enough.

A good hj from someone who really knows what she's doing can be one of the most erotic experiences imaginable. The twins however, (at least with me) are a little on the sensative side, but if it's done gently, um, yes!!! I've never been rimmed, and it really doesn't raise much excitement for me.

I definitely like a gentle tugging on the boys with with fingers or mouth, but it doesn't happen often. I need to sit in a hot bath or jaccuzzi in order to have them drop very far. I very much like the rimming but a little fingering feels just as good. Yep! Good stimulation between the sack and the starfish is great, especially with a hj or in doggy.

For me, EVERY area of a man's body is an excuse to explore!  I have not given a great oral treat without paying attention to all the other areas since I was 13, so YES it is a big turn on if the guys can be open to new things. I am much into rimming,anal play, prostate massage, tantra etc. but even with the guys who refuse to be "probed," the need for the "boys" to be caressed and licked is a must.  Of course, the man must be bathed by ME and groomed before I will put my tongue just anywhere on anybody, but I find that is a nice way to start the date. A bottle of wine and a bubblebath can lead to many wonderful adventures without the fear of diving into something nasty.  I don't know what happens to some men's grooming etiquette after they reach a certain age, but geez who marries these dirty guys!  If she will not tell him, I will!

so if you are post op does that also mean NO prostate seems reasonable