I understand that there are many times a provider is not really "turned on" during the session. Here's my question...

...That's not to say that sometimes some natural lubrication isn't taking place but it's safe to assume some additional lubrication is being used.

Just the thought of someone "strange" turns me on... I don't know how he is going to touch me nor if I am going to like it. Does he know that that's my spot? Oh wow I didn't know he'd do that! Built up anticipation and attraction I guess.

Lube has an artificial taste and any guy who went down in her would know that's not real wetness.

Jaye

I don't necessarily look at someone's looks as the only way to know I am going to be attracted to them. Whatever your flaws are physically are not a hang up, we have some too! And I am sorry, guys over 50 have always been the best at lovemaking, very patient and attentive, and that alone is going to turn any woman on. So maybe you have more swag with the ladies than what you thought. Keep your confidence up and yes you probably turn her on as much as think you did. IF she is so "high quality GFE" as you say, you should be able to communicate with her if she really is enjoying herself, you are paying her for the GFE and the good GFE's are authentic in everything that they do. Also, as mentioned, lube tastes yucky and you will taste that if you go down or lick your finger after probing.

....women can get wet from the right physical stimulation, without being the least bit turned on psychologically.

Not questioning my ability. I do think I have some of the positive qualities you mention. Just curious so I asked the question. And I *do* always go down on them so would notice an easy to spot lube I guess. But I don't claim to know what is in every bottle in a woman's bedroom/bathroom Most girls have so many products

Yeah, I miss her too.

I wonder if she still lurks and/or posts here under a new handle? I kind of hope so, but she's still a bitch. lol Hi bitch, I hope you are reading this. lmao

That we can't perform unless we're physically attracted.  We both know that female sexuality is a lot more complicated and very mental, but I'm sure it's tough for guys to understand, so this is why they assume we use lube.

Just like my dick can get hard with the right physical stimulation, without being the least bit turned on psychologically. Come think of it, I'm seldom turned on psychologically whilst being physically aroused.

Can you imagine the things she would have said to Roddy?

They sell some lubricating balls that the lady inserts into her vagina before the appointment and body heat melts the capsule and releases the lube. I miss HTG.

Posted By: deepgritz

I understand that there are many times a provider is not really "turned on" during the session. Here's my question...  
   
 Do providers do something to prepare themselves for a session? Down there? I am one who likes the slow start GFE type thing with some kissing and light foreplay before moving on to the main even. I notice that almost always when I get down to the kitty she is almost always already wet. Which means either I am doing something right or they are prepping?  
   
 I am an early guy so I assume I am usually their first appointment. So do ladies have a pre appointment routine to make sure they are turned on for the appointment? Inquiring minds want to know

Women can get wet from physchological stimulation without being turned on by physical (appearance).

And it takes me a lot to say that..

of course we can get wet from psychological stimulation, with or without physical touch. Point was that we can also get wet without that psychological aspect.

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did the short bus get a shuttle directly here to the gen bd ??? to much mountain dew , toasted you.  

Thus forwarding it!

The vegetable test.

...that some do and some don't. I know foreplay matters but don't assume every provider doesn't need it nor does every provider need it. You can speak for you but not others. I offered an explanation for all the ladies the OP sees being wet. Even that is a small sample.

She had no problem with the mangina crowd.

How could it be any more of a physchological turn-on, when no physical attraction or even touch is required

For instance, astroglide doesn't leave much of a taste. KY, on the other hand, is horrible.

a wet pussy is a physical reaction, you over thoonk your body's reaction to the experience.

Hey Skinny Minnie,

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

Women can get wet from physchological stimulation without being turned on by physical (appearance).  
   
 I can remember a session a few years ago with this tech mogul.  He was kinda overweight, not fat, but the type who is so incredibly busy that he ate like crap and slept like crap.  Outwardly, he was not what you call attractive.  He wanted a fantasy session where I would model different lingerie for him, no touching, until he couldn't stand it anymore.    
   
 The sexual tension was just insane.  
   
 He finally told me enough already, and to come over to him, bend over and pull my panties down.  I kid you not, I was so soaking wet without him laying a finger on me.    
   
 Long story short, the attraction was 100% mental, and very little physical on my end.

I'm like you, Robbin. The kissing and foreplay really does it for me.

...too, vowing never to come back.  How did those "greener pastures" work out for you? Not.Too.Good.  

Now you're desperately hoping HTG reads your posts.  It's always sad to see an athlete playing past his prime.  The same holds true for TER posters.

I will admit that I'm not always turned on during a session. When a gentleman takes his time it does get me excited and anticipated. Having my Yoni lightly played with before we start. Preferably DATY or light finger play while sucking gentle on my breast is a great way to get me warmed up. So, yes your doing something right sweetie :-*

I prepare by washing it really good! I don't think there are any tricks to make yourself horny lol. You are so jaded lol. There's no secret lube to trick you into thinking I'm turned on when I'm not....
I just really like being naughty. Being slutty turns me on, and looking cute in lingerie and taking it off in front of horny guys, and being stared at and ogled by guys and giving them boners turns me on.  
 I get turned on easily and enjoy being sexy, giving blow jobs, and sex... I like cocks...the guy doesn't have to be hot. A cock is a cock. If I wasn't a little nympho, I wouldn't be in this business...my freakiness (and of course the money) is what led me to it lol.

With a bit of her favorite porn right before you got there.

lol so not true

One of the odd ball uses of WD40 has been to spray it on a fishing lure claiming that it attracts fish to bite. Hmmm, I have read but never encountered a pussy that smelled like fish I wonder if there is some connection LO

I enjoyed reading your post, you're my kind of lady.  

who used a bit of lube (I think more externally to avoid chafing) after foreplay.  Some medications mess with a Gals natural lubrication...  besides the individual variations.  The absolute worst is too much lube...  no friction, nothing is going to ever happen!  (At least that is my experience)

Please read the entire post and my reply to Skinny_Minnie.

I second Russ's opinion.

I have to travel to hobby, period.  

I am not GaG, or anyone's, minion/slave.  GaG is a friend and so are few others on the board.. Sorry you have to stoop to such a low level..

I wish her the best and hope she finds happiness and fulfills all her dreams .  

I would look at you all day hon

No need to physical stimulations
My Ritochka wet  right after dinner when I un bucle  garters on stockings and gave him panty it is already wet just from mental stimulation  
It is how women are   when  good man stimulates her senses