It is NOT okay to send explicit emails without identifying yourself! I made the mistake of saying "who are you?" and now he is threatening to post reviews on all sites. I have notified TER support but if anyone else has any ideas, please let me know. All I know is his email, nothing else. I try to keep my emails short and sweet and prefer flirting in-person, to minimize the paper trail. I feel so blessed to meet so many wonderful people in this hobby. So sad, there are a few creeps out there! xoxKay
And every other way he tries to contact you. Responding will just make it worse, he will get bored. Sorry this happened, I know it can be scary... Our info is out there for everyone to see and anyone can contact us with and say what they want behind anonymity. Of course, screen screen screen. Hopefully the asshole doesn't slip thru... And even if he did I bet he wouldn't reveal himself or say any of that to your face
Ignoring a creep is the best response. He is looking for drama - don't give him any. He'll go find it elsewhere...the asshat!
You know that can be done, right? Even if it's under a blocked network, etc etc. You just have to know the right people. 
can't feed off of fear of someone completely ignoring them. No way to get off. They'll get bored quickly and move on.
I was having a similar issue with a guy. Ignore him. That works. So sorry to hear.
I am ignoring him for now. Zen, I sent you info; maybe you can find out who he is.
I just wanted to be pro-active and give TER support a heads up in case he does try to post a review. It's not that what he wrote was so bad. It's more the fact that he would not identify himself. I do not flirt until I have a clue who I'm flirting with! Peace and Love~ moving on
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