"Once you go black, you never go back."

As calmly as possible, has anyone found this to be true?  Found this to be not true?  Hobby, civvie, or both.

In my case, i found it distinctly not true.  In a civvie relationship, the sex was close to endless, but nothing to write home about, primarily because of her inexperience [she did try very hard though, poor girl, and i hope I left her wiser, as I definitely left her sadder].  The bulk of the sex was at her instigation, as she was making up for lost time, so no blame can attach to her for lack of interest or effort. [My emotional distance probably didn't help, and the relationship overall would have to be considered unhealthy]. She just started too late in life.  And I was  definitely not the right partner for this young lady.

Anyway, thank you in advance for your candid responses.  Apologies in advance, i know a cold reading of this post puts me in a very unfavorable and unfeeling light.

I haven't found any real basis in this one.
While my pool of experience is limited, and limited to professionals, I have seen several black ladies and haven't found the experience to be significantly different than any other ethnicity.

mean no more to me than Blond, Brunette, Redhead, or Gray.  As long as she's a woman, and started out that way, I'll gobble her up.  Yum, Yum, Yum.

I have no problem going "black" and then coming back. Or going white, or yellow, or brown. etc

Yes, there are definitely diffrences between the races, but isn't that why many of us are here? for the variety.

BTW as I am sure you already know, it is impossible(or at least it should be) to base your feelings about an entire race on the outcome of a single relationship.

I said, "Once you go Bar(eb)ack, you never go back."  But your paraphrase is well taken.  Just a clarification for the record.

unpaid , or paid -
a pussy is a pussy is a pussy
paid or unpaid

Its all about chemistry
not race or age -

Jesus -

A decaf, soy, extra hot, double shot, sugar free gingerbread Americano with extra foam and room for cream wrapped in a sleeve made from recycled paper.

Enjoyment comes in all sorts of packaging.  Personally, I have had fabulous lovers from just about every corner of the world-  so to speak.

Always remind yourself of the sample size, before using broad sterotypes.  Good question!

XO
Melanie

but you're right, it does leave you in a very unfavorable light...

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For me a pussy is a pussy is a pussy is not true. I've seen a number of them that are scarier than Freddy. Others are like an old National Geographic photo, technically perfect and definitely convey what it is intended to and there there is the unique artwork - well worth a million dollars to possess.  If you do not believe me, maybe there should be a contest. You ladies show us your works of art and we guys will vote which category each belongs in ;0.

Try Rhue Paul most beautiful black woman next to Whoopi Goldberg will they fit your stereotype?

I can not believe that question was even asked. I thought we had moved into the 21st century!  There is nothing in skin color that makes one person better than another at anything except tolerence to the sun. There are always going to be great lovers in all races just like there will always be bad lovers in all races. May you all find more great ones than bad ones. PS variety is the spice of life.

That is an excellent way to put it Melanie!


Kisses~
Crysta

in general, black men have bigger dicks.

this is just true.

however, not all women like big cock.
some of us like the lil wieners best but you wont hear many of us admit it.

and you wont believe us when we do

cuz all the women in PORN are sure loving that big cock arent they ?  doesnt that make you wonder why all their orgasms are so FAKE

nothing wrong with preferences. to each their own. get over it.

I'm with you ana!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks Ms bangbang i'm glad to know that those of us with smallcocks disease aren't discriminated against in this hobby.
uc

that's no doubt true, but does it only tell half of the story/half of the myth?

what about non-black male and black females?  are those guys "not going back" as well?

is this all, as i suspect, just a lot of urbam legend we ought not to put stock into?

I have cleints who are black and I love em. I have white clents too that I love. I have female clients that I have and love.

I love varity.

I will say this..my black gents are a bit wilder in the sack. I love those typw of sessions...wild, funny and DEEP.

I say this..any gent is like a potato chip I could never eat just one!.

Shane

Geeeeeeeeez,

What are you here for?  I said "Deleted"!  I said "Duplicate"!  I said "see post below".  For pete's sake, I wrote "eom"!  And yet here you are!  Unbelievable!

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...I was amused at this thread at first (never really thinking that anyone was taking it too seriously), but then it began to amaze me how people seemed to NOT KNOW what the phrase was really about.  Discussing black women? Civvies v. pros.?  Pussy?  None of that has a damn thing to do with the saying.  It's just a stupid saying that refers to women not being able to "go back" to a small "white dick" after getting "filled up" by some "black mamba".  Obviously, there's no real truth to the saying.  But it's kinda sad how long it took for you to point out what others were missing.  Thanks anna.

quite right you are.

i never fail to be surprised at what pushes the buttons around here, and how practically nothing, no matter how seemingly pointless or trivial, rarely fails to be responded to by someone.  With 700+ reads, this one's a perfect example.  I hope most of those "reads" were accidental click-ons.

But i did appreciate the insights, such as they were, displayed here.

Well, back to the cave, after a pitstop at the Acropolis, and I'll retire the Socratic Method for a bit.

I bounce back and forth between the races all the time - both in my compensated and non-compensated relationships.  It's all been good - except, of course, when it wasn't...