This has been around for a while but I just came across it -- a blog (anonymous) from an escort on Vice (appropriately)
A nice read .. this one particularly piqued my interest because it raises some questions for me: https://www.vice.com/read/a-female-sex-worker-compares-notes-with-a-gigolo-218 While I don't find it surprising that women would P2P, it begs the question: do women find the experience with clients unappealing or simply don't want to cross an emotional line of enjoyment? And why would P2P make it different? I always had the impression that many ladies used the profession as an excuse for enjoyable, recreational sex, but maybe that's wishful thinking on my part. It obviously feels better when they enjoy it, although I'm not naive enough to believe it happens all the time.Find a paying client attractive. Seeing that men submit to paying a fee to be with the lady. I don't believe women find submissive men to be attractive.
"... I have always felt contempt for men who want me to pretend to be turned on when I couldn't possibly be..."
The one truth that everyone ignores or pretends isn't there. Now the usual suspects are going to chime in about how they find their clients attractive, even the old fat ones with wrinkly balls sprinkled with white pubes. Spare me from the continuation of the lies. Deep down each guy knows the truth.
Or how those questions are really relevant to the article. To me, the article was about an escort who wanted to hire a male escort just to see what it's like. She felt uncomfortable in the position of client and found herself constantly empathizing with him- so much that she didn't want to have sex with him. Seems normal. If I hired a male escort I'd probably just want to talk and compare notes too! Sex would be too weird probably for the same reason doctors make bad patients? IDK
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"I'm no Mentat but.."
Dune references - huge turn on. I need to find this woman.
If wasn't for the envelope how many ladies would be having fat old guys climb on top of them?
The one truth that everyone ignores or pretends isn't there. Now the usual suspects are going to chime in about how they find their clients attractive, even the old fat ones with wrinkly balls sprinkled with white pubes. Spare me from the continuation of the lies. Deep down each guy knows the truth.
IMHO the majority of women get more tuned on by the thought of money than anything else.
Harvey Weinstein looks like Jabba the Hut but look at the women he gets.
I would not fuck any of my clients. Sorry but that is my truth. They pick me I don't get a choice...well that's what the money is for.
Now I will say that some women do get clients they are genuinely attracted to as not all johns are old and fat. Some are regular guys. even though I am not attracted to my johns, I do find nearly all of them interesting and have great conversation with them.Not disputing that. I'm just saying I get the impression that a lot of girls enjoy the work.
On Topic: I can't say I wouldn't have done the same thing if I were in her position. sometimes the conversation is more intriguing than the thought of having sex with someone who may or may not be genuinely attracted to you. It's part of the reason I don't get lap dances at the strip club. I don't want my money to be the motivator.
Off Topic: I personally have found several of my clients to be quite attractive. Are there some who are older and more out of shape and may not be my "type" yes. But that's not true for every client I've seen. Everyone is in this hobby is here for a different reason. Not every client is an old fat bastard just like not every provider is a drug addicted bimbo.A nice read .. this one particularly piqued my interest because it raises some questions for me:
https://www.vice.com/read/a-female-sex-worker-compares-notes-with-a-gigolo-218
While I don't find it surprising that women would P2P, it begs the question: do women find the experience with clients unappealing or simply don't want to cross an emotional line of enjoyment? And why would P2P make it different?
I always had the impression that many ladies used the profession as an excuse for enjoyable, recreational sex, but maybe that's wishful thinking on my part. It obviously feels better when they enjoy it, although I'm not naive enough to believe it happens all the time.
Not all love the sex but love other aspects.
I'd say that's 99% true. Women want a man who takes charge. We are just ATMs to them. It is what it is.
They love the money, the attention, the showering of gifts but I would say RARELY the sex. They are praying for a 2-pump chump 90% of the time. It's highly doubtful they enjoy the sex very often.
I don't have a horse in this race do it does me no harm to tell the truth. I do love the money honey!
I think escorting is the only job where wanting to be paid for our services somehow makes us disingenuous. Don't you work for compensation too
making money. Maybe some hobbyists mistake that as genuine attraction.
Dune references - huge turn on. I need to find this woman.
Just to be clear, I don't see anything wrong at all about being paid for services. In fact, when you think about it we would NOT want it for free (there are other avenues for that) because it leaves open an obligation of sorts.
I just LOVE that there are women able to do this, it's a great gift; just trying to understand a bit of the mystery of what motivates them.At least she said she was "no Mentat" because if she was on, I would hate to think you were interested in someone who over analyzes everything! lol!
Dune references - huge turn on. I need to find this woman.
You guys who insist you're all awful and only worth the money you're plopping down are missing the whole bit where you're breathing and of legal age. We can enjoy ourselves, you're the one who apparently can't. Stop discounting our words and our experience because you have a complex!