Jut wondering as I never book an appointment with a provider that I not physically attracted to...last year I met a highly rated provider with extremely attractive pictures. When I met her in person she was about 20lbs overweight/10 years older (and learnt later that she was pregnant) and I could not even get my penis erect as I was disappointed by her looks. I know I should have walked, but gamely tried to have sex with someone I was not attracted to and it was a miserable experience for both of us...

From my dear mother, who is now my guardian angel, "True Beauty Comes From Within!"

or they think about the money.  

I usually could care less how a guy looks as long as he is polite and respectful. Would I prefer to see George Clooney of course but realistically speaking I really don't mind physically. There have been some attractive men that aren't the greatest in men and men they aren't the most attractive that have been phenomenal. I dont find it to be much of an issue.  

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Jut wondering as I never book an appointment with a provider that I not physically attracted to...last year I met a highly rated provider with extremely attractive pictures. When I met her in person she was about 20lbs overweight/10 years older (and learnt later that she was pregnant) and I could not even get my penis erect as I was disappointed by her looks. I know I should have walked, but gamely tried to have sex with someone I was not attracted to and it was a miserable experience for both of us...  
   
 Some providers state their preference in ads, but I have never seen no pot-belly, no bald head etc. in ads, I am sure some of you love the green more than the pot bellies and baldies; but when you are carrying out the deed with a GFE experience, how the hell do you manage to keep yourself sane?  
   
 Most of us use this hobby to see woman we can not easily date in real life, most escorts see clients who they never want to meet  in real life ....  
   
 So how do you girls do it ????  
   
   
   
   
   
 

Next, I guess, is chemistry of some sorts.  


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It is amazingly easy to find at least ONE good quality in every person I meet.  As long as I can find that ONE good quality-- the rest doesn't really matter as much.

moments why doggy style was invented.  Almost every woman still looks good from behind.

do you just leave your glasses in the other room, or what?

you're looking for, is that besides the envelope, or including?

a national holiday for the guy who discovered or invented lube.

Perfectly said Grace, I do the same thing. I treat all my clients as best as I can no matter if they are 'good looking' or not.  Truthfully it doesn't matter what they look like as long as they are nice and clean.
I had a client email me that he wasn't that good looking. It broke my heart I just wanted to give him a hug and treat him like a '10' session.

That would be aside from the envelope.  I've actually walked a client out the door, complete with returning his envelope, after 20 minutes because he was so horrid and boorish and I simply couldn't find anything good about him.  Money is important-- but isn't everything.  

Then the guy quickly blows his wad, and now she's counting her's and it's now, Adios pendejo!!!


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A lot of us clients go for the GFE experience, that is more than just closing the eyes or letting him go to town in doggie...

say "clean", do you mean recently washed, or shaved?

As long as the person is nice , clean and has a fun personality .
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder !

But it's harder to find in some people than in others...

I date all manner of ladies. Some are attractive, some not. Some have hot bodies, some not. Some have gigantic boobs, and some have tiny little things. Some are in their twenties and thirties, and some are in their fifties and sixties. I've found that I love all manner of woman. That includes many different races too. She does not have to be a Playboy model. If she is, that's great too. What's important is her heart. I have so much more fun with good hearted ladies.  

I have never met anyone who I'd consider remotely "ugly". The word itself is just not a pretty word and doesn't belong in my vocabulary personally.  

Are you sure there is inner beauty in EVERYONE???

I get what you're asking and often find myself likewise amazed. My guess is that it's a combination of several things. Professionalism and being able to distance themselves personally from that act; women are from Venus (and think about these things differently than men in many ways); and as some pointed out, you typically see what you're looking for so if you make an attempt to find the best in others you can then ignore the other stuff.  

You can't say no to the beauty and the beast

He's cute in a Daddy kinda way lol

in the brothers karamazov, father karamazov told his titular sons, "all women are beautiful if you know how to look at them."

great job

Ms Preston,  I was wondering since you have said that you concentrate on that person's good  qualities is that you alter ego's persona that allows you to do that or are you just psychologically in a place that allows you summon you powers as "Athena the goddess of supreme booty benevolence ".  At that point it would seem that nothing else seems to matter.  That is the true thespian in you.

looks are transient, they can change quickly, but being beautiful inside usually never changes. Some people are super hot and some others arent physically speaking. its the insecure ones and overly confident ones who i have a hard time finding attractive. ultimately I see it as a business and i will be nice to u no matter what and try to put a smile on your face, but if youre not someone who is at least trying to be nice to me, i probably wont see that person again on account of awkwardness.

is only skin deep, but ugliness cuts clear to the bone!

Fuglies?  We're a godsend, we're their bread and butter.  If we could be pulling it for free, why would we be paying?

I'm far from good looking. But I try to be nice and respectful with these ladies. I have never been turned away based on my looks. I find that if I'm respectful and polite these gals will be the same to you. But then again some of the ladies I see aren't knock out beauties either. Except a 26 year old hottie provider I'm seeing. Money will make a lady do anything she would not normally do.

...... something they like. Either they are the best actresses or are really enjoying themselves. My favorites will be looking me in the eye and really smiling while face to face in Mish. To me that is the most beautiful sight in the world. I guess it really helps to be friendly, respectful and grateful. Thanks ladies.

Really, its primarily just a spillover from me as a person.  Even in the "real world" I tend to have a touch of PollyAnna in me... I like to believe in the intrinsic good that most people have in them... whether its their sense of humor, their intelligence, their kindness, etc....

To me, "Fugly" would signify an attitude, or a way of treating somebody... combined with unappealing physical attributes to a greater or lesser degree.  

Not me.