Here goes..are these signs that I am getting to old to hobby??
#1, only able to get 1cup during a session ( I know the # of cups does not mean anything ). The foreplay & kissing is nice and long but once the cover comes on & the main event starts I loses it in the bag right away.#2, I am beginning to enjoy/feel the chit chat after the first cup is more interesting then the sex? I feel I should just get a chat buddy-----is cheaper....
#3, All the providers start to look alike they seem to give me the ( same service and same feelings ). I feel like a dope fiend chasing after the first high ( the first ATF session ) & it seems not likely that I will get it again.
#4, After a session, I get back & I need a few hrs of nab time.
#5, Not as excited as in the beginning of my hobby when I was doing all the research on different providers on TER
I haven't read all of your threads and posts but I tell you one thing. You're one intelligent fella with this one sir!!! I can't say I see all your points or signs but damn near close. Oh yeah! Lol.
Then you're not too old for hobbying, IMO.
If 1 and 2 in particular disqualifies one from hobbying, I never would have started!You can’t remember your TER password.
You can’t remember your secret email password. Your spending all your retirement money on medical. You bring up your atf in a random conversation with your wife. Ooops! Your atf gets a pained look on her face because your ass is sagging more and more. Your cock has become Mr. Sad. Your atf says sure let’s get together, but the day you asked for comes and goes without hearing from her. You see a girl in a bikini at the lake, and you don’t look. Instead of pulling up TER, you’re happy watching old Avengers episodes on utube. Emma Peel doesn’t do it for you anymore, so you watch Paladin instead. Instead of pulling up photos of Zayla, Montero, and Rasha, you’re happy visiting the Paladin website to check on episode ratings. Instead of endlessly scrolling ads, you spend all your time at the 60 and over forum to see how many others are in your boatI feel the same way although only number 1 applies to me. I am fairly new to this (9 months) and I always knew that I was a foreplay and quick draw type of hobbyist. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion and you somewhat build a more than platonic relationship with your picks (I think).
1) Once is enough...two can usually be had, but even if not, the fun in trying is more than worth it!
2) The chit-chat and cuddling is where the connection and bonding gets established. 3) Every lady you meet is special in her own way. Nothing more needs to be said. 4) I have a drink or two, and maybe a toke also. The afterglow is part of what makes playing this game great, at least from my perspective. 5) If this game is no longer what it was to you, perhaps you need to take some time off. This sounds like, from your previous comments, where you are coming from at this point.or my part I enjoy the sociability and physical comfort as much or more than the raw sexual drive so I intend to keep going strong as long as my body and piggy-bank can hold out.
After all, I might not be able to do back flips any more, but I still enjoy rock an rollHonestly I am much happier in a loving committed relationship for some of the reasons you listed. The hobby to me is a filler for in between.
When I'm in love with a woman who can come close to matching my sexual desires and needs I don't even think about other women, but in the absences of that, I"m horny about 87% of the time every day and am pretty much willing to screw any female with a pulse. Since I've been married, and have had a number of long lasting relationships I get that need filled and when 'm single the hobby lets me get my inner freak on. Years ago I was doing orgies, gang bangs, three ways and anything else i could think of, and yes, it became numbing. Take a break, you'll miss it. Go see Zayla in SF, she is as close as I've come to a married, loving type feeling during a session, but also added in an amazing hot sexual naughty aspect that filled all my buckets.In terms of #3 and #5. At some point it felt like I had to see someone instead of wanting to see them. Recently I had several opportunities and plenty of funds, choose not to. Did buy a great lens for my camera though.
Perhaps it is the eyes without light of the girl that really doesn't want you on top/in her. The orginal high and thrill is gone and you are correct it is difficult to find that again. I'm taking a break for a while.I'd consider being too old if #3 were how I felt
I googled it.......(not really).......that WAS quite some time ago!!!!!!
who we are.........we like what we like..........present company included.
as long as you can get enough of it. lol
Sorry, but after literally thousands of women over a forty year plus period of time, I have no intentions of stopping. I still enjoy every minute of being with beautiful women.