OK, I know there have been too many conversations about size, but what about height differences? I'm 5'6" (on a good day) and in real life I've always pursued/dated/married women who were shorter than me. It's been fun to play a bit with taller women, but I still feel a bit self conscious about taller women.  I've only had one woman make a comment about height, and she was my height barefoot. I think she just didn't want to lose the heels. (Is heel size another neurosis to discuss??)

Some men like a woman to be taller and request your highest heel, while others prefer lower or no heels.

I can wear heels and still be shorter than most men I see. I do think that this has driven a lot of guys like yourself my way, who may be intimidated or insecure by women taller than themselves, and I often get the request of "no heels please."  

I've been with women of all height ranges.  For me, I seem to have a lot more fun with petite, height wise, women.

Oh how nice a road trip to Chicago would be! You can wear heels for me. Maybe I can also bring my imaginary friends Jon Stewart and Neil deGrasse Tyson.

I like all sizes but really get turned on by the tall gals, both thin or well proportioned.

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... and I love women that are taller than me. Most providers that I see are in the 5'- 5'2" range and I love them to pieces, but when I come across a gal that piques my interest who is 5'9" or above I get extra excited.

I still tend to ask her to ether not wear heels or to take them off. Part of it is they don't look comfortable and I want her to be comfortable as possible. Second I tend to associate heels with the whole stripper look and while I like strippers as a rule, I hate look. Sometimes the no heels request has nothing to do with height.

I am all of 5'3"  so all you man whores are taller than me and I like it. A LOT lol 5'6" or 6'6"  all prime man meat to me.

Yeah communication is the key to have a successful interaction with someone. Height or other physical attributes may affect the deliver of your thoughts but not a significant factor. Commitment and understanding is way better than physical characteristics. Right?

I think physical attribute is just a superficial requirement. If you really want to socialize or want to date someone, do it out and proud. Stop measuring and whining about your height because It's the personality that counts

There are no 'height mismatches', only uncreative people.

I'm on the tall side and I've found fun with various heights and weights. Height makes no aesthetic difference for me, though I find that some shorter guys don't like taller girls. As a result, I'm usually asked out more by tall guys and most of my clients are fairly tall. I'd love more variety.

No whining from me, the OP. I'm generally happy in my own skin & bones. Just curious about expanding my horizons and wanted to see what people of other altitudes & genders think.

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I think physical attribute is just a superficial requirement. If you really want to socialize or want to date someone, do it out and proud. Stop measuring and whining about your height because It's the personality that counts

six feet . . . . and eight inches.  I always was partial to spinners, but a year ago, I had a run of tall providers for several months of 5-9 and above, and it really opened my mind to more types of women.  Now I don't even look at the profile stats when selecting someone to see.

Depending on the activity (69), a women who is slightly taller can actually be and advantage. Less stress on your neck

I used to get teased a lot in school for being so petite. We're talking nicknames, being used as an armrest, being shut in lockers, you name it. But now I've actually grown to love being short. It means that no matter how tall my man is, he'll almost otherwise tower over me.

if the girl has long legs, but otherwise, tall is just another great option.

six foot three hunchback is going to seem more like 5-6.

Just wondering what is the ideal height difference for you in your civilian life?  Also would you have a lot of taller friends who are female that are fighting with this conundrum?

That sounds like a real hoot

Why do I think this weekend is going to turn into an orgy

A variety of heights makes different position more advantageous/easier on my back anyway....  It isn't something I "shop" for. Though I recently looked for a skinny tall provider. Didn't find any to my liking in Vegas that weekend...

Interesting take! Thanks, I hadn't considered that, since I only wear heels that are comfortable to walk in, and almost always dress in business casual or elegant evening wear for dates. Neither look feels finished to me in flats.

have to avoid the providers that are much shorter than me as it make for some difficult match ups.  did find a provider one time in Dallas that was over 6' .  we had a great time. K9 was much easier as was 69

countless taller girls say they "just can't date a shorter man. I wear heels all the time." (like during jogging, at the gym, in bed, at walmart)

And proud of it!!! Hate when clients don't read & then say "OMG she's so tall"... I advertise it all over my ads & website!!!  But I get a lot of clients who love tall women & they are shorter then me... They usually tell me when we r lying down we are the same height.... I love confident PEOPLE!!!

They should be the first thing gone for me. I am a bit weird though and many guys love heels.

Some of my favorites over the years are 5-9 and above.