When provider A , sends provider B an email stating..
[email protected] emailed me, his name is joe schmoe, states he has seen you.Is this so ?
What is your reply..
Do you just say
1- yes i have seen him , he is not at all from ellie and very nice gent !
2- well, yes I have seen him. He is not enforcement of any type. he was a little aggressive with me, but you and him may click.
3-Yes I have seen him. Cancelled once, likes to talk alot, not aggressive, you have to be the aggressor... other than that .. great guy.
What I generally say is. He is not ellie, great guy. If you do not totally depend on provider refs you can also see he has reviewed many other girls at ( board name) . If the gent is a "stallion " (ahhahaa).
Ill also add that, as sometimes, that is important to a girl so they can be prepared. (ie, different condoms etc )
Basically do you write a thesis on him ? Or just say " Yes he is cool "
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I've never been asked for a reference! But if I were asked, I'd pick option #1.
I have asked for references and 98% answered option #1 while the other 2% were more like option #2. I've never had a provider tell me anything that the client would not be happy with. In fact, I think that clients expect providers to offer each other play-by-plays.
Best,
Kate
A pony...........aye dew hope you keep that our LITTLE secret.
Thank you
LOL.. Id never tell.. we keep Trojan pony condoms on hand for all occasions. LOL
I usually say (if true) "Yes, he was adorable and a total gent with me." If I can, I will a detail or two to assure the lady that we are speaking of the same gent - I loved his sideburns, ask to pet his puppies they should be in the car, be gentle around the veicrose veins... something.
Honestly, I'm not sure I trust the woman remembers the gentleman when all I get is "he is fine". And with how easy it is to email spoof... I like just a little more. Of course, it is not necessary or the same when the gentleman has given identifying details first, such as - "I saw her mid-July the day she got her new window unit A/C and helped her set it up."
"ask to pet his puppies they should be in the car"
Is this some kind of code language? Who leaves their pet(s) in the car for that long? In the summer heat, they would be dead puppies.
Ciara is in Buffalo NY, everyone there drives a pickup truck
My dad lives there and drives a Cadillac. He drove my pickup once, but not in Buffalo.
It isnt redneck town here.. we all drive minivans, suvs, or 4 wheel drive vehicles for the snow.
I'm in Seattle... summers here, summer evenings to boot... no risk to the dogs! Every good dog owner would make wise choices on that matter, AND leave the windows down. I wouldn't give the time of day to a gent who didn't love his babies.
whether he wears undershorts or not.
Please bring these questions to the Newbie Board for crying out loud.
I can't bring myself to use those smiling faces so you know it's a joke.
If I leave my balls in my shorts while I am elsewhere - well, I find that they could die... so Rufus's comments still stand - and it does get hot "in the car" in the summer.
Like a little more to be sure we are speaking of the same person. I have a very very good memory and offer a few details to help ensure that with others... "He was a nice guy, no problems. He is a Psychologist and has written 3 books..." etc.
Never anything bad. (unless of course you were bad with me- in which case you would know it! Redheads are fiesty afterall!)
...Holy smokes, what's not to like!? Beautiful face and hair, bodacious boobies, a top-notch attitude, and a great name! Oh wait, sorry, got off the topic. Oohh wait, I know something I don't like: you're not in my town! Can you get down to N.C.?
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For me, most say,
The dude is GREEN! Cell phone goes off constantly what with the pleas for help and all...
Definately not a smoker - but brought wine... and it was in a GREEN bottle....
Trouble getting him out of the tights (they were GREEN) and then there was the cape thing...
He is associated with elle - but I am not sure how... but not to fear.... as he is the bizarre one... not the other one...
he is a bit paranoid about kryptonite - so you might want to keep that out of sight. oh, he is a stud - and you may ask him to schedule more than one hour... as he is know to "spill over" if ya know what I mean... but other than than, did I tell ya he is GREEN!?
If I don't recognize someone right away from the name and email addy I may ask her in what city he met with me since I travel so much..or ask her what he does for a living since that is how I always remember gentlemen...then I say oh yes...he's a great guy you'll have a good time..such a sweetie (or words to that effect).
I believe that would assure her that I did indeed meet with him...I would never ever vouch for a gentleman I couldn't remember!
xoxox
Cookie
If he chooses to let them know, so be it. But I dont think its important to let other girls know what he does for a living.. just what he doesn't do.
I usually just say, "I have seen him, there were no problems."
Unless there were problems, in which case I may say something like, "I have seen him, you may want to inquire how he prefers his session to go." I haven't had any drastic problems, so I SUPPOSE if I did I would probably state what those problems were. "I did see him, he beat me up and stole my car." Or, you know, whatever.
I dont know why that sounded hysterical to me..
I think sometimes that terrible crap does happen..
Thanks kimi !
I just tell them basics...if there is any kind of rudeness, etc. I'll say so!! If it's been awhile, and I can't remember "Bob", I have to guess he wasn't bad, which of course I'll remember.
...an "awesome dude".
She will always have a special place in my heart (You know who you are!).