So, what is the overriding factor that draws you to a provider?

Is it a body part?  Some men enjoy well-endowed breasts, some "love big butts" and can not lie.

Is it the provider's age?  Some men enjoy ladies closer to their own age, some much younger.

Is it the provider's menu?  Self explanatory.

Is it the price?  In spite of how affluent we may be, some men refuse to frequent a provider in a certain price range.

Is it the provider's beauty? Also self explanatory.

So, all things being equal, which of these factors would influence you to lean one way or another?

the first thing is overall looks and appearance. Then it comes down to how she describes/portrays herself to determine if I think there would be a connection. You can have the most gorgeous woman with the most amazing skills, but if there's no connection it would be a disappointment.

her reviews scores, especially for performance.

Also number of reviews.

Within a certain range of affordability, that is the key factor.

I also consider how well done her website is, and also if she participates on the boards, how well she presents herself on there.

Recommendations from people I know and trust also plays a factor.

For lack of a better term, it's her personality (yeah, go ahead, laugh your asses off).  I've met many providers with absolutely perfect breasts and/or butts.  Age really isn't a big factor, although I'm older, uh, more mature so I prefer more mature providers.  As for menu, I don't have any problem finding providers with an agreeable menu.  Price isn't an issue, either--plenty of great providers with reasonable prices where I live.  Beauty is subjective.  For example, I think my atf is gorgeous, an 8 on a bad day and most days a 9, but some have rated her as low as 6.  

Personality is what influences me to see a provider again, more than any other factor.  And wrapped into that word are many attributes:  intelligence, confidence, playfulness, sense of humor, kindness, inventiveness, and grace... and a few others.  My atf crosses the bar there more than any other provider I've met.  Which is why she's my atf, and probably always will be until one of us retires.

Her Reviews. If her reviews are great, then I'll go see her. If the reviews are not so great or bad, then I'll keep looking. Looks don't attract me like it used to when I was younger. Performance is a key factor with me.

But that can be hard to determine before meeting. So it goes to looks and reputation. On the looks front I am a face man but as that is often cropped or blurred breasts that are mid size (B or C) and natural are the next big draw.

no up-selling or premiums whether noted in "Cost of Service" or not.

Then photos/appearance

I'll admit that I read between the lines to see if she's a cool person.

I do love a great ass, and legs, so that can often be the final deciding factor.

But when I'm choosing a lady it's her menu and performance to it that propels me to investigate further.

All of what he said plus +++  I read every review she has plus the reviews HER reviewers have made of providers THEY have reviewed-looking for a consistent pattern !!

I take a look at their photos and consider their bio. I'm an ass man but like nice breasts. I've met a few
Top 10 providers in my area and found that some, though sexy and perform well, don't jive with my current mood when I see them. Age doesn't irrelevant. Maybe height, can be intimidating for some reason. I also enjoy cute hands and feet, a nice pedi or mani is sexy to me. A beautiful face and attitude is a win.

Location and Price open the door to further research.

Size, looks and activities all play a roll.  

All "standards" may be reduced depending on desire/need

I like:

- Facial photos – right there on her website (without any "private viewing" arrangement)

- Photos of her in party outfits, revealing a nice ass and a trim belt line  

- Good grammar and succinct expression on her website pages

- A slightly premium price (it says a lot about quality)

How a woman looks in a tight dress means more to me than how she looks in her undies. Frankly, on provider websites lingerie shots are vastly overdone.

Several things.  
Age- nothing younger than about 30. At my age I  require a more mature lady.
Her menu of services must include bbbj, cim
Price somewhat but that is variable.
I prefer petite but with curves, no spinners.  
What brings me back for more is personality, intelligence and the above.

WTF is accassability? Sheeesh!!!!!

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Hands down, continuous interaction.  That assumes mutual attraction, enthusiasm, spontaneity, imagination, and an ability to stay deeply attached during the entirety of the event, whether it's an hour or several.  For me those occasions are not to be taken for granted; you can't ensure that they will always occur, but when they do grab them and enjoy until exhaustion.

guys state for booking me. They probably do not even think I am all that hot, but like my personality. Well ok, not the mangina crowd, but the real men who like a bitch with some spunk and actual credentials.  If all you want is an acrobatic monkey, you can have one for a lot less. I have actually had guys say "I was scared of you" lol, but still booked. Yah, I took THEM to dinner ha ha.

1)  Price: self-explanatory
2)  Body type: the slimmer the better
3)  Menu: more GFE is better
4)  Geographic: local girl is better than visiting talent

Yes in that order

More guys than will admit it love a gal with some spunk! And no I'm not sucking up to her fellas she's a long ways from my neck of the woods. If for some reason the stars line up and I ever find myself close to ya I would book just to match wits with ya. I don't think I would be scared of you but I sure as hell wouldn't cross you .  

Personality is one of my main reasons for picking dance partners, that and intelligence. I love smart gals especially if they write well in their reply to my initial inquiry.  My former ATF, now retired, fit that bill perfectly. Something about correct usage of a comma gets my blood pumping.

Like a professional license, or kids who are old enough to find this stuff.

And you're one of my posters. If you was local I would have booked already based solely on personality. Well that and your love of small cock. LOL

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I've been in the hobby as a client for 11 months now and have put in a lot of homework to determine what works best for me.  There really are two categories:  1) meeting a new provider and 2) continuing with a regular.

in category #1 it is a mix of physical attributes and personality (based on their ad photos, self description, and reviews). I like petite. small to medium breasts (natural), laid back and personable GFE.  

in category #2 to keep me coming back , we need some chemistry, and she has to be reliable for booking. The regulars I prefer all have intelligence, can carry on a conversation, good kissers, get into the session and like to make out a bit. They also all have a sense of humor. I prefer t book in advance of at least a day or two. Sometimes a week out.  There are a couple of women that I see who work best when I contact them the same day, instead of a week in advance.  I visit them less frequently. I understand the ladies are working a calendar and cancellations happen a lot.

This answer is running too long, I think you've inspired my next post.

No, I am not shit but my family is... so is the damn 7 years I spent in school and will be paying out the ass for til I am 80 lol. Guys who insist on that shit rarely leave the hotel room, either. No thanks.  

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Establishing a good rapport with them at an M&G, or hobby related swing parties.  Physical attractiveness counts as well, but since most providers are attractive, this isn't an overriding concern.

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Since I love small dick how about a double London and myself??

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And I will comply as soon as there is a site for johns who solicit hookers (illegal) and they post full face shots. And I could give a flying fuck about who pays. It is not about money, it is about exposure for doing something against the law.

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