I want to reserve a four hour time slot with a provider who looks and sounds like a great person. On her sight she infers a "4 hour dinner date" Just because I reserve four hours, does that mean I am expected to take her out to dinner. I am NOT trying to be cheap but I know going out for dinner will take about two hours. My desire is more intimacy, not to have a dinner date. At that point, I don't think two hours will be enough. She has a three hour rate but the four hour is a great $ choice. Would she have the right to feel upset with me if I just ordered room service or went out for  quick drink?

For instance, I know on my website I offer my regular donations to your favorite charity, then the Fall Special, then the dinner-date special.

Hugs,
Ciara

But a dinner date means you take the lady out to dinner. It could be Nobu's or IHOP. If a guy comes to my hotel and orders room service when I was expecting to get out feel the air on my skin and stretch my legs and get to know you better then I would be dissapointed and hard pressed to feel sexy eating on a gross bedsheet for something prepared 12 hrs ago with hard bread and a surcharge that is more than gasoline. Really. But then again I do this gig for kicks and not trail mix.

That's the Michelle I knew and loved.

I am making an assumption that pretty much all of the well-reviewed girls on TER are similarly efficient in the erotic arts. Having said that, there are VERY few men out there that can go round after round for 4 hrs. Granted, there are some. Maybe you are one of them. IF you are one of them AND she is still hoping for the dinner date thing because it makes her feel special and like you're on a real date, then by all means, get a NICE hotel that will have ACCEPTABLE, high quality room service. That's definately available some places. Then you can eat between "pops" during the session, and still enjoy a date-type atmosphere with the sharing of a meal together. Personally, I find it highly enjoyable to have high-quality cuisine in such an intimate setting, without having to "go out". Going out is fun, as well. Anyway, back to my original point. Unless you are CERTAIN that you are the RARE sort of man that is capable of many, many go-rounds, you might want to elect the actual "go-out" date. I know it sounds awesome to think of 4 hrs of bare skin and oodles of sex, but the reality is that I find that few men can even keep going round after round for 2 full hours. Definately a higher probablity of that than for 4, tho. Believe me, if a girl is good at her game, you will be struggling to 'keep up' even if you do go "out" for dinner.

My guess is that she cuts a price break on the 4-hour dinner date because she's expecting dinner out of it.  (I'd hope you're not planning to ask her to pick up her half of the check, or worse yet, buy you dinner...)

I think you should email her, explain what's on your mind, and ask her what she thinks would be a fair price for a date like you're thinking of.  Maybe she'll be intrigued enough to give you the previously-cited dinner date rate anyway; you'll never know until you ask.  Still, I'd expect her to be annoyed if you booked the "dinner date" and then just wanted room service.

I usually go to the Salvation Army soup kitchen to dine... followed by WWF or Tractor Pull Monster Car Meet.  I often take my, by now dripping wet, lady to our local stripclub for a night cap.  This is followed quickly by a stop at the local Motel 6 for a leisurely romp in the hey....  usually they beg for more, but hey, a guy's gotta have a little mystery.

Sometimes, if I like the gal, I'll take her to the bus stop.  but usually I don't!  

Hope this works for you.....   I know most of my providers drool for this royal treatment!  

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I agree, if she advertises dinner date then its dinner then a date.

If it only says four hours, then... well its up to you both.

mixed with oil paint?

Ooooh baby!

ala St. Regis room service. But, I guess I could be wrong

I cannot believe all the rantings about this post. It's so obvious what to do.  H E L L O, call her and find out. Usually, a provider will list her regular donations, then her dinner special (if she has one). Obviously, she's probably included a discount because the guy is taking her to dinner. I've never been with anyone that wants to just cuddle or can keep it up for four straight hours. Maybe an overnighter is better. And don't call and bargain with her. How tacky. That's why we have websites with set donations, guys. Gees! Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

Very well put my dear.  I know 2 hrs. of action is my tops (50's)--even with the best of the best lady.  No, I'm not about to try to rank them.  LOL

I have a four hour dinner date listed on my ad that costs just slightly more than my three hour rate. I expect to be taken out to dinner during those four hours. I do not want room service. There are a total of two hotels here in Chicago who make excellent room service. Chances are most of my clients aren't staying at those two hotels. Like Michelle says, it could be Tru or the Golden Nugget BUT I want to go OUT to dinner. My three hour rate is only slightly less expensive because I know during that time we'll be intimate the entire time. Dinner is neither mentioned in my ad for the three hour rate nor is it expected.

Thanks to "most" of you for your advice. I know it seems obvious but I haven't asked for a 4 hour before. The advice seems simple so dinner it is. Anyone know a nice place around the Mag Mile? I know ther's alot but I'll take suggestions. Not the YMCA!

I think it must really take a sexual athlete, man or woman, to go round after round for 4 hrs.  I fantasize about it, and lord knows I've tried, but realty is reality and Avalon is right.  I have not been with a lot of women, but most need a break as much as I do after about 2 hrs, even if its just a break from me.  I often schedule 3 or 4 hr dates, but I also try to keep my fantacies and expectations to reality, because I really don't want to be dissappointed in myself or the woman I am with.  And so far, I have enjoyed every minute of the experiences I have had.

You like Japanese?  The Iron Chef?! hopefully on the second dinner outing - Morimotos...  !!!!

After a fun evening of watching 4 straight hours of Ed Sullivan reruns - sans Elvis and Beetles airings....   we could quickly catch a bite to eat at one of my faves....  but - that is right....   I forget - it probably would not be a fun evening....   you'd be wit me.!!

When we stayed at the Palmer House Hilton, the conceirge recommended a really good seafood place, along with many locals we chatted with...for the life of me, I can't remember the name, sorry.
Either call, or stop by the Palmer, and ask the concierge..I do remember we walked!!
Have fun!!!

One of the great advantages of a dinner date is that the provider can have more time to get to know you, more time to fantasize about having sex with you. Use that time to your advantage.

I would be willing to bet that if you take the provider out to a nice restaurant, and take your time enjoying the meal and her company, that she will not punch the clock and leave at the four hour mark. If she sees that you aren't completely satisfied yet, nine times out of ten she will stay until you are.

You get what you pay for. If you try to do room service or a quick drink, she will give you quick sex in return. Think of it as a real date.

I enjoy a 4 hour dinner date and that is what I always have with my ATF.

It is nice to get out of the "closed" environment (e.g., hotel room), get some fresh air, have some nice conversation over a nice meal and a glass of wine, and then go back to the room for more fun. This would make the second round a lot more intimate.

How about - You go home with a doggy bag that night, freeze it and use it when you see someone else later

Great for building further anticipation....

I was just offering a different possibility.

Jeesh!

LoL

-- Modified on 12/8/2005 5:31:29 AM

My preference is always for an extended date; almost never go for less than 4 hours. One of the reasons is that at 4+ hours there is the chance to get out and have lunch or dinner first - especially if it is with a lady I have not met before - or on occasion in the middle, or even after. Just a totally different feel to the event.
My 2 cents, YMMV

It's truly amazing. More creative than Charlie Trotter's. And I'm in love with the executive pastry chef, Gale Gand. It's just steps from the Mag Mile.

Or Topolobampo. Authentic Mexican with a twist. Cannot really explain the food there. Farther than Tru but not by much. It's one of Rick Bayless's restaurants.

Whatever you do, please don't go to a chain. Pretty please! Chicago has so many amazing restaurants. It breaks my heart to see people eating at California Pizza Kitchen when there's many other culinary delights to be found.

and it feels more like a date. You also get the opportunity to converse more if you're out to dinner and get to know each other before the "dirty deeds" take place. Wink! The excitement builds up and is worth it in the sack.

Hugs,
Ciara

I know that I discount my 4hour dinner date because we are having dinner and I account for that. If there was no dinner then we would need to negotiate a new situation.

And, a lot of girls that only do dinner dates do them because they want that time to get to know someone.

There is a reason why it's priced lower for her and only she can tell you that. A one hour dinner might even suit her......you just have to ask her.

X's Summer