Has anyone ever signed up to Ashley Madisons site? Are there really horny housewives out there who just want to play? I actually saw 2 local providers on there in my area looking for a SD LOL, but I was just curious if you have had any success on that site?

That site was compromised by hackers. It's not a site I would consider using under the current circumstances.

I signed on & bought some credits so I can send & receive emails. I emailed to 9 different gals and I never got 1 single reply. I was not being a jerk my emails were " I saw your profile here and you seem like a really interesting girl. Do you want to chat to see if we have anything in common?" Actually I got 1 reply with some additional photos but nothing after that. Then I found out that on sites like Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder, etc have 3rd party marketing company that can reply to us. Meaning they put up BS profiles and sent you a wink and then you spend money buying credits just to see what they send you and nothing happens after that. Any success story? I have heard that any decent looking sugar baby would want $5 to $10K/month just to see you once a week. TER is so much better. IMHO

Whoever hacked website done good job getting folks details....

???? Can you explain

I have always suspected as much. I mean come on there are tons and tons of horny guys out there who would fuck anything on two legs (yours truly included!) as long as it is NSA. There is absolutely no fricking way any woman who just want to be fucked but can NOT find a willing penis -and so desperate that they have to advertise for it.

Except say those who are truly fugly to the point of disgusting looking but of those are never profiled on AM or AF or similar sites right

Good hackers to get private info off website..Thanks!

...who said "I am really worried about the Ashley Madison ordeal.  If my name is published I am screwed" .  Of all the hundreds of TER hobbyists, we must all be allergic to Ashley Madison or have %100 stealth.  Possible

...The only thing I know about Ashley Madison is what I've read here. I've never even looked at the site. Why would I? There are far more ladies here than I'll ever be able to see and I don't have to deal with any of the crap from A.M., Sugar Babies or what have you.

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Pearls of wisdom!  Well, almost.  
You also have "the vision".  You should work in financial investment!

Many of your observation and analysis of affairs are well-put and I can agree with them. OTH you also spoke from a very biased POV talking up all the positives about escorts as (almost) perfect alternative but neglecting some of the downsides as well.

Yes there exists advantages of affair over escort so it's not as one-sided as you made it out to be.

Come to think of it you put out a very well written infomercial piece. Congrat! LOL

Please enlighten us as to the downsides (brief bulletpoints).  I want to make sure I know all of 'em.

Sorry don't have that much time to entertain you but here are two obvious ones for you to chew on in the meantime:

1. Cost: it depends on the personal situation of course but if you're a real man with balls and with half a brain you wouldn't have to pay your mistress what you pay your escort ($200-up/hr.) Sure you still have to wine and dine and buy some cheap present for your mistress but there will be plenty of time OTC unlike an escort who will charge you down to the second she spends with you.  

2. Service: one word: GFE. Chances are good that you won't have to fight over the issue of condom when you have sex with your mistress. Chances are good also that there won't be as many stoopid "rules and boundaries" issues here.  

When you're dealing with escorts you're dealing with the real "professionals". It's like gambling in the casino where the odds will always be in favor of the house and you rarely win. OTH in a mistress situation they could well be civilians just like you and at worst, not nearly as calculating and devious as the professional escorts. Here at least you have a chance to come out ahead if you have a halfway decent game