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shyguy272 20 Reviews 2160 reads
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Have you ever had a session that the provider (regardless of great reviews) was just quiet. Like they were great, sexually, but it's almost like they assumed you didn't care to chat and so you're just stuck with a massage and barely any talking in between rounds and despite your attempt to chat, it goes nowhere and they don't really make an attempt to chat with you?

Maybe it's an age thing? I'm on the young side, so maybe it's just a lack of having things in common or they're just not used to seeing men my age. Or is a longer session (more than an hour) better for this or repeating? Maybe they don't bother assuming that since I'm young I likely won't repeat with them anyway?

Any suggestions?

Mr-Blonde 865 reads
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As they are all people, each one is uniquely different.  

In my experience, there isn't a whole lot of talking during real massage sessions anyhow, if they are serious massage sessions that is.  

If they are bullshit massage providers, then there could certainly be a lot of idle chit chat.  "Blah blah blah, my dog, my workout routine, I get my nails done here, my hair done there, blah blah blah"

Then your head is spinning from all the talking, and you wished that you went with the other one who doesn't say anything.

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 901 reads
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giving an attitude. Thats not normal. I think if both people just happen to be enjoying the massage in silence thats awsome, i had massage sessions in silence and technically in massage training they will teach you its not really good to talk over a massage session your supposed to be relaxing them and maybe some aubable breathing is suggested at least in Thai-Shiatsu.
          The sound of audible breathing then encourages the customer to breath deeper and then gets them into deeper relaxation.
    BUT sensual massage and the twist added in the adult arena where it is not really a professional establishment the socialization part can be alot of fun, I speak when spoken too and if they act as though theyd like to know more about me or know about my experiences in this field like sexy stories or maybe just they want to talk about anything at all.  
            I think where your paying and your the customer if you want to be engaged in conversation the lady is supposed to be intuitive to each guest and pick up on that and follow your lead. If she wasnt being polite and chatting in return then I d say you shouldve asked her why she was treating you that way. I would guess you did something to piss her off thats not normal behavior.
    Try some one else and see what happens thats not normal for session. Not with me anyways , I am never quiet or shy and tend to be bubbly and happy go lucky especially when i am about to have 180-300 dollars, HAHAHA. no its cuz I love my customers. hahaha.

Panthera12 875 reads
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Nothing worse then a babbling hooker who won't shut up without a dick being strategically placed in the appropriate orifice.  

If you want discussion, try a provider who is close to your age where you may have some common interests or you can initiate the conversation if you are not too shy or intimidated. You are paying, so control the time.

Dr Who revived 923 reads
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The art of conversation is one that comes with practice.  And many people would rather not work at it and then wonder why life is so boring.

I've yet to be with anyone (hookers, dudes, clients and so on) that I couldn't engage in chat.  But I started my practicing at a very early age.  And over the years tried to enhance my skills in being able to really bring out someone's personality (perhaps you've noticed I enjoy "pushing buttons").

But since I'm about as far from a wallflower as one will find (yeah, I know you're shocked at that) sometimes it ends up being hours of chat with some of the gals here.  And I'll bet a few of them will tell you that CPA won't STFU.  But have no fears...many of those gals can easily keep up with me and a few are even more outgoing and won't STFU.  ;)

But as far as knowing what a woman (here or otherwise) is into is irrelevant to me.  The reason I see one initially is because she has the pics (and enough reviews or recommendations) that work for me.  But if I keep on seeing her I guarantee I enjoy her babble...whatever that may encompass.
Posted By: RodTidweLL
I tend to start the wheel of topics until the lady shows interest in one. If you read a Us weekly or Entertainment weekly you'll run into a vast array of topics that touches the masses.  
   
 If you talk about subjects that require in depth knowledge of the subject to enjoy that may bore some people because they do not have prior knowledge of the subject.  
   
 I've found the best conversations I've had with lady's were subjects I knew nothing about and they knew a lot about. Which is great because if I'm interested in the topic and they are excited to talk about it, unbelievable win/win scenario.  
   
 I put it on the suggestions board once about a place where ladies could post hobbies and interests that could be searched. A lot of people disagreed, but you know what's better than being with a beautiful woman?. Being with a beautiful woman that likes the same things you do, so you have fun talking with her.  
   
 (Yes CPA, I know this isn't match.com)

inicky46 61 Reviews 847 reads
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But his answer to his own question is so wrong.  What's better than being with a beautiful woman?  Having insanely hot sex with her, that's what.
And don't get me wrong.  I love enjoying her company, too, especially an OTC dinner afterwards.

MasterZen 33 Reviews 638 reads
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7 / 55

to the mind, the ultimate erogenous zone. This is where connection and "chemistry" arise and the mere physicality of sex is elevated to a higher level. Detached physicality, grunting and rutting, is frankly not worth a damn.  

Stay strong, young Padawan. You are on the right path

inicky46 61 Reviews 893 reads
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LuvTheBoardBoys 772 reads
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just understanding 'this' a bit more. When 'they' decide to come around, which sometimes takes a lashing or two for them to do that, or sometimes they just 'feel' like it (on their terms of course, good post or not)...take it when you can get it LOL. They will be back to their 'normal' posting ways in no time at the drop of a dime.  

Tis nice when they feel like acting like 'men' and not animals however, isn't it? But believe it or not, CPA is the least of your worries (on this board at least). ;)



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inicky46 61 Reviews 762 reads
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Because I'm the one having a great time with her at dinner OTC, while you're at home wanking it.

LuvTheBoardBoys 803 reads
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11 / 55

chatterbox myself and my personality is one that wins the gents over usually over my hot bod (yes, I'm totally just kidding) 10x over, but personality always wins over anything in life no matter what someone looks like.  

Hell, why do you think big mouth CPA and I get along so well LOL? Too bad he can't get over his damn OTC time (which now you all see why he pumps that up, cause he knows he can't shut up half the time during a session LOL) and he and I can have a 'real' session. But I think we'd need a good overnight for anything to actually happen between the two of us chatterboxes to get down to the 'real' business at hand hahahaha.  

Now that is funny indeed and I know you all can picture that one.  

Ima waitin for the 'real' invitation by Mr. CPA himself quite honestly....but we all know that ain't gonna happen. ;)

LuvTheBoardBoys 648 reads
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hotplants 760 reads
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The very first thought that zipped through my head when reading this OP was: do you know how many on this board repeatedly bitch and moan about "babbling hookers who won't shut up without a dick being strategically placed in the appropriate orifice"

 Or, close enough to what I thought, anyway.  

Of course, me offering the same perspective is like dangling honey in front of an asshole bee....lol...The tone of your response is unnecessarily rude, in typical fashion. But, bitching about no talking is equally as silly as bitching about too much talking. We certainly agree there.  

You always have the option of making your individual preference clear

inicky46 61 Reviews 652 reads
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But Roddy, beware of her advice.  She's melted down, left and been reborn so many times I think it's sprained her wittle brain. How long do you think it'll be before it happens again?

LuvTheBoardBoys 630 reads
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15 / 55

And do me a favor (and everyone else here) and try and reread your posts as someone else. Do you 'not' think you look like a nitwit and your posting against Mr. Tidwell...no matter how hard you try, he wins every single time by not having to say a word. You do it all yourself I'm afraid. Post like a 'man'...women (I guarantee) will stop shaking their heads at home when they read your shit and think you're a much sexier man Nick. Come on, you're a writer, get it together.

inicky46 61 Reviews 575 reads
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And, yes, I've had OTC time with some of the top hookers in the biz.  Including many of the gals I've reviewed. Several have actually insisted on paying. Believe it or not, I could care less.  But many on this board know the truth. It comes from having an actual personality and treating women as real human beings, not begging to be their doormat.  Some day you may figure that out.  For your sake,  I hope so.

inicky46 61 Reviews 691 reads
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You are priceless!  Please don't melt down and leave again. (not that you can help yourself). I just hope you and Tidwit can make things right.  You know what you need to do.

89Springer 702 reads
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I doubt it's an age thing. I'm at the opposite end of that spectrum from you, and age hasn't affected the conversation with young providers.

I'd be surprised if a provider wasn't trying to do whatever possible to get you back.

The sage advice given to me decades ago was to get someone talking about his or her favorite subject, which is him or her.  

Did her reviews mention her being quiet?

LuvTheBoardBoys 734 reads
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19 / 55

The 'Board Boys' planning their next attack. Nick is at the head of course (he's the master planner).  

Btw, cute ass Nick. I may need to take you out for a run though.

Panthera12 830 reads
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20 / 55

to the next especially if you are going to lay out your hard luck stories on him.

LuvTheBoardBoys 705 reads
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So I was right then LOL...CPA 'is' a talker LOL. I knew it. God I hate it when I'm always right. Well, so much for that then lol.  

I know you're all about punishment, so how should I punish him then? I'm sure you can come up with a few suggestions or should I just keep bothering him, that'll do the trick right?

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Blowing Chunks 828 reads
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22 / 55

Especially when I'm at the verge of passing out late at night, tad drunk after drinking together with the girl, yet still want a BJ before going to bed.  Can a girl talk during BBBJ?  lol  All I really want to hear are slurping and slobbering during that time. Well maybe just for a good 10-20 minutes.  

After that it'll become pretty awkward if nobody's talking.  

I haven't run into too many shy providers though. I'd guess that a girl with an excessively shy/quiet personality might not fit too well in this business where they are paid specifically to be a companion which usually involves entertaining their client in one way or another

Blowing Chunks 681 reads
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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 812 reads
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Usually when two people meet and spend an hour alone together, they assume that conversation is expected and often feel it's necessary. This is true even if they have nothing at stake--nothing to sell, nothing to find out, etc.--or no particular interest in getting to know the other person.

So, everyone tries out a variety of questions to ask, and some lead to great conversation. We remember those as our magic questions. Because of obvious differences in the session situation, there are, IMO, no magic questions. At least not from the client's side.
Posted By: shyguy272
Have you ever had a session that the provider (regardless of great reviews) was just quiet. Like they were great, sexually, but it's almost like they assumed you didn't care to chat and so you're just stuck with a massage and barely any talking in between rounds and despite your attempt to chat, it goes nowhere and they don't really make an attempt to chat with you?  
   
 Maybe it's an age thing? I'm on the young side, so maybe it's just a lack of having things in common or they're just not used to seeing men my age. Or is a longer session (more than an hour) better for this or repeating? Maybe they don't bother assuming that since I'm young I likely won't repeat with them anyway?  
   
 Any suggestions?

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 880 reads
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"OMG where did you get your nails done? They look stellar!"

 
Fit above question to something she went and got done.. may not be nails. DON'T say eyebrows or lipo lmfao

89Springer 880 reads
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LuvTheBoardBoys 864 reads
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I can hold your hand as I believe both my shoulders are quite intact, even if I was to pat myself on the back. However, I'm gathering that's something a lil more your style Nick, seeing how you get all insane behind that keyboard thinking your 'man upping' someone on here LOL (which really couldn't be farther from the truth lol). It is hilarious and I almost pee my pants sometimes reading your CrockofCrap (I've coined this the 'boardboys' continuous smacktalk lol). But I do believe the only one ever having a 'meltdown' on here is you my friend. Try and keep up willya? Good lord almighty you will see the light at the end of that tunnel someday, I just know it. I can almost feel it LOL.  

Btw, 1975 suits you well I might add.  

;)


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LuvTheBoardBoys 703 reads
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Inicky46 on the TER GD board on a daily basis.  

If we squeeze our eyes tight enough, he might just go away.  

But don't worry Nick, I still 'luv' ya!! Promise.

;)

-- Modified on 7/12/2014 2:04:34 AM

2labman 26 Reviews 763 reads
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30 / 55

is when I already know the lady pretty well so the silences are comfortable, not awkward.  Otherwise I prefer some chat.

OTOH, I've been in some sessions where the lady is constantly talking about nothing and it's difficult to get her to quit talking and sex me up.  Although there is one guaranteed way to stop her talking - it's quieter during oral time.

inicky46 61 Reviews 803 reads
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Better stock up again.  Wouldn't want to leave a stain

inicky46 61 Reviews 890 reads
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almost. And you're right, I have a cute ass.  I call it Tidwit

inicky46 61 Reviews 723 reads
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mrfisher 108 Reviews 813 reads
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I recall only one provider who prattled so much that, despite all else being very good, I eventually  came to the decision that it just wasn't worth it to see her anymore.

Most gals I meet like to converse and I enjoy the conversation.  The quality of the gal's conversational skills are paramount along with our chemistry.

Recently I saw someone and they were on the taciturn side which threw me just a bit as I kept trying to supply all the conversation (Which I'm certainly not shy about doing.), but I had wished she returned the ball a bit more often.  I'm hoping that in subsequent meets she'll warm up a bit.

Not much to suggest I'm afraid as each situation is unique and there is no one size fits all solution.  If you really like the gal, then repeat with her and see if she warms up.  If not, and it still doesn't feel right, go off and find someone else.

inicky46 61 Reviews 506 reads
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Bad time of the month?  Still, your obsession with me is flattering.  Nice to know my words are  so important to you.
It's also heartwarming to see you're back on Team Tidwit again.  So glad you've patched things up. But interesting why you won't tell us what happened.  Hmmmm......

inicky46 61 Reviews 715 reads
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You just finally put up a post that makes sense.  Actually, there have been a few over the past couple of days.  So, no, we're not changing.  Perhaps you are?  Think about it.

89Springer 849 reads
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when long periods of silence seem natural.  

On the first date with a provider? Not so much.

GaGambler 914 reads
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both of them agreeing "I know it's pee" lmao

It's so great seeing you crazy kids together, and by "crazy" yes I mean it literally. Just remember there turdster be sure to bring Tardy her lithium/valium/vodka cocktail to your date, or I can't be held responsible for Cybil if she's off her meds.

89Springer 655 reads
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LuvTheBoardBoys 663 reads
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Mars62 15 Reviews 697 reads
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LuvTheBoardBoys 850 reads
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Yea, I think not. But go ahead and keep telling yourself that. You boys are funny...good lord.

inicky46 61 Reviews 819 reads
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I've never changed my handle and neither have Gambler, CPA, DA or any of the "crazy boys."  So are you just making shit up now?

inicky46 61 Reviews 690 reads
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Dr Who revived 634 reads
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But that was only for a month of so while TER went a little crazy keeping up the French Revolution characters I created.

Other than that it's easier to just keep track of CPA.  And no alias either .

I still do the OTC as CPA or jeanvaljean, or Javert or Marius or 24601 and so on.
Posted By: inicky46
I've never changed my handle and neither have Gambler, CPA, DA or any of the "crazy boys."  So are you just making shit up now?

LuvTheBoardBoys 740 reads
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you don't 'change' your handle idiot, you use other ones to post along with your current one, as well as alias' etc etc. Are you telling me the 'BIB's and ADJ's' of this world just...poof...just disappeared and the DA's, the JD's, Lucas' and everyone else and his neighbor just showed up?  

Again, f*** off Nick. You're an idiot and complete tool and everyone apparently knows it but YOU.  
Posted By: inicky46
I've never changed my handle and neither have Gambler, CPA, DA or any of the "crazy boys."  So are you just making shit up now?


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LuvTheBoardBoys 607 reads
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Dr Who revived 524 reads
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And so paranoid.

All of those handles and aliases are all different guys.  And none of them are or have been Nick.

It's amazing that after all this time you still can't realize that a poster rarely can change their writing style.  You've probably noticed that with all your handle changes you are outed within a couple of posts.  All the handles you've listed above have their own style.

Think about it.
Posted By: LuvTheBoardBoys
you don't 'change' your handle idiot, you use other ones to post along with your current one, as well as alias' etc etc. Are you telling me the 'BIB's and ADJ's' of this world just...poof...just disappeared and the DA's, the JD's, Lucas' and everyone else and his neighbor just showed up?  
   
 Again, f*** off Nick. You're an idiot and complete tool and everyone apparently knows it but YOU.  
   
Posted By: inicky46
I've never changed my handle and neither have Gambler, CPA, DA or any of the "crazy boys."  So are you just making shit up now?
   
 

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inicky46 61 Reviews 699 reads
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When are you going to date?  Will Tidwit review it?

LuvTheBoardBoys 668 reads
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paranoia whatsoever. It has to do with the unreliability provoked on this site. And never once did I say 'Nick' himself nor you used different handles (although of course you have, come on). But guess what? anyone with half a brain can change their writing style in a blip..it's not that hard so don't play dumb. Not you of all people. Why I believe we even had this discussion, didn't we? Anyway, you know I don't buy that crap. Everyone knows this place is all about the 'changing of handles and alias' constantly, so don't even go there lol, at least not with me.  

How do you know I don't have 1 or 10 other handles going on right now as well? but this just happens to be the one I 'chose' to be the 'transparent' one lol.  

You don't. One will never know what goes on here 'truthfully'...that's my point.

Nice try though. :)

I call your bluff.

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inicky46 61 Reviews 692 reads
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You are the gift that keeps on giving.  You just can't help yourself, can you?

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 907 reads
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Is she screaming at you or with you? Rollercoasters and stubbed toes.

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