If you wanted to go past her TED talk coverage, this is an interesting article. A little lengthy, and I'm not willing to give the Cliff Notes on it (how's that for dating oneself!)

https://www.1843magazine.com/features/whats-wrong-with-infidelity

Try leaving the "s" off after http.  

Here's another attempt...this tech stuff befuddles me sometimes

...Ordinarily it wouldn't matter, but this is the name of the person you're citing - Esther Perel, as in "Perel-isms."

http://www.1843magazine.com/features/whats-wrong-with-infidelity

You have to then click on the article about infidelity.  I liked the article about Indian perfumes also.  There's a well known gal of Indian descent now in India.  I hope she travels back with some of these.

And don't worry about dating yourself.  I date myself all the time.  No one else seems to want to.