I haven't had any friends die in awhile, and I miss wearing a suit. I have a date with a provider this weekend, and I've thought about wearing a suit to see her. We won't be leaving the hotel room. The suit is just something I feel like.

Ladies, is a suit on a john a turn-off, something you like, or it's something that doesn't matter to you?

A well tailored suit is so f'ing sexy. Something we just can't wait to get off but love viewing men in them

But you have to do what's comfortable for you, the more comfortable you are, the happier you'll be, and the happier you are, the session will be much more enjoyable for both you and the provider.  Men in suits, especially well tailored silk blend ones always look very sexy and sensual to touch...at least for me.
Kisses
Frederica

a big deal for a provider unless you have a badge clipped to your belt.

I'm sure any provider would appreciate a well groomed and hygienic client, but unlike a civvie, why would you try and dress to impress? If it makes you feel good to wear a suit, then I'm sure no provider would mind it. But you're gonna score either way and for those of us booking a GFE you'd hope that at least the illusion of excitement and sexual pleasure on her part will be present. In other words - you should be receiving the best service possible, regardless of your wardrobe

to your sexual preference, lopaw, but you must be my soulmate.  Seems 99.99999% of the time I agree with you, almost like ESP or something.

Respectfully,

LasVegan

I just feel like wearing a suit. It's never mattered before, except perhaps once.  I wore a suit a couple of years ago and the provider seemed weird about it.

Wearing a suit to a session. I play often when I'm traveling on business and I like nooners. In my line of work I sometimes wear a suit to an appointment, so I show up for a session dressed in suit and tie. The ladies actually seem to like it, as they don't get to many mongers showing up dressed in a suit. So I say, go for it!  

Maybe not the big deal we're thinking of but first impressions do count, for both parties. When I travel to Vegas I have always met my dates in a suit, mostly because I'm coming from a dinner or cocktail meeting with a client or two. And when I meet my date, they usually like to have a drink at the hotel bar first, to unwind, so why not look nice? But I have to admit, I enjoy dressing up and hitting the nightlife. So does wearing a suit make or break the date? Probably not as I'm always respectful and I go out of my way to make the evening enjoyable that we always end up having a great time so.....But i don't think it hurts. Anyway, I'm not a shorts and Tommy Bahama shirt kinda guy. But that's me.

Usually see some of what's underneath. With a suit you can't. Is that a good thing with respect to most of your customers?  In other words, as you peel back the layers, what you see just gets worse?

What I was already wearing that day. If it's a workday, it will often be a suit. If it's Saturday, it might be shorts, tennis shoes and a polo shirt.  I know what you mean about impressions though.  Some providers that I met first time in shorts almost didn't recognize me when I showed up in a suit. Another one who had ONLY seen me in a suit was equally surprised the first time I saw her in shorts. She laughed and said, "What happened, did you lose all your money?"

So, on the weekend, I want something that differentiates the fact that I'm on my leisure time, and wear something smart but comfortable.

On occasion, however, I do see a gal right after work, so am wearing my business suit, and the gals seem favorably disposed to it

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is how I feel when a man wears a suit. It's very sexy to me and I am sure others too

no matter what role i'm playing 😘

totally rock bottom

The OP is a guy.

I guess as a writer you never learned how to read!

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Unless you mean he's written someone's dinner order on a note pad.

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Go for it!

Steph xoxo

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Lingerie is usually what is under and never seen in real life cloths. A suit is the outer shell and is a visual of the man in it, a well put together man.

I really don't care what a guy wares, just saying I find men in suits very attractive, no matter their body type. Now I can't say all suits, some men have suits that just don't fit them well, so it has to be well tailored.
 

A man in a suit is elegant and damn sexy!

What he said👍

Shorts. T shirt. Dockers. Clean  and fit work just fine.

I haven't worn shorts or a t-shirt since I was 7 or 8 years old. I've never even looked at Dockers in a shoe store.

but my momma taught me young to ALWAYS look presentable when I go out. So a suit isn't out of the queztion.  

Regardless of the fact that we pay, who wouldn't want a woman attracted to you when she first lays eyes on you? I think it's almost as important as great hygiene.  

Even when Hosting, which is most of what I do, I'm freshly showered and nicely dressed most of the time. Other times, when I'm running late, I'm just getting out of the shower sans towel.  

But that's only with gals I'm very comfortable with. I love it when a woman notices my efforts to be attractive, much like I appreciate their efforts to look amazing. P4P or IRL

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I'd be under dressed in an Armani tuxedo and Ferragamos 🤑🤑🤑

That was  very, very HOTTTT!

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of telling me you're going to start eating Asian pussy with a new wingman?  I'm crushed.

It has nothing to do with that. A question was asked and I gave my honest opinion. I love men in suits. It's very nice. They can come without it, well I mean they gotta wear something lol but suits are a very nice touch. I don't see men in suits that often except when I sometimes go to downtown near the court house for lunch then I roll down the window and cat call them That's nice too.

You get bonus points if you wear cufflinks.

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Guys look nice suits.

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Back in the late 60's and very early 70's, you could usually tell an undercover cop by his white socks.  

I've never owned white socks, either. Of course, I was never an undercover cop. ;

Or so he has claimed on numerous occasions, and even though he is one of TERs "unfunniest" posters, he also claims to have been "well paid" for writing comedy. Now THAT's funny.

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Full disclosure here, I do NOT, nor have I ever owned a white suit. I will confess to owning both a white dinner jacket and a pair of white shoes, but NEVER a white suit. lol

and not everyone looks good in a suit or even a tux. Some guys look "dashing" in a tux, others look like they are part of the wait staff.

Ooooo!!a suit gets the ladies wet!

Yeah, but then you have to stand next to Ricardo Montalban and shout, "Da Plane! Da Plane!"

I would never turn away a man wearing a sweatpants and a tee, but when a guy shows up in a suit I notice! Love a sharp dressed man.  

 

as the commercial said, the ladies like Peter Cetera so I like Peter Cetera

telling us what kind of car he drives?  LOL

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and let me rephrase my post "I will confess to "having owned at one point" a white dinner jacket and a pair of white shoes"

On a rendezvous with a friend and newbie, he wore a well tailored suit and we never left the room. My friend and I took turns peeling off each article, talk about foreplay! Long story short, it will make for a sexy pleasant surprise!

A suit also shows you care about the provider (yeah, I know pay-for-play), but they are people, too.  They take a lot of time getting ready for you, I'm sure its nice to know somebody reciprocates.  When i've come from work and am in a suit I ALWAYS get a compliment and more intimate interaction.  Not much hotter than a girl pulling on your tie and taking you to the bed IMHO.

Clean polished dress shoes, freshly showered, clean manicured nails.  

Seriously clean finger nails and toe nails, neatly trimmed goes a long way.  If you were a woman, would you want dirty fingers up in your private parts, which are easily infected or prone to yeast infections?

Seriously, polish your shoes and make sure your fingernails are clean and manicured and that will go a long ways to a better session.  If you're fastidious enough to take care of the little details, you probably take care of the bigger issues - like STDs, or lack thereof.

I always wear a suit for my ladies. They take the time for us and I take the time to dress, manicure, and etc.... for them.

...the men here think the only thing that a woman cares abiut in this endeavor is the money.  of course that's an important thing, it's obviously the main thing, but guys here constantly believe ut's the ONLY thing.

it's rather like asking, do you like air conditioning in your office, and you say 'yes,' and the guys all say 'oh well thing would you go yo work for nothing?

last time i saw my atf i wore my suit as usual. upit was such a delight and so damn sexy to hear her coo "you look so good in that suit, but i really want to take it off of you!"

one of the many reasons she's my atf

I wore an aloha shirt instead.

But that was in Key West on the beach.

It depends on where the wedding takes place.  I would wear a suit, or at least a tie and jacket at a church wedding, but it's been a long time since I was at a church wedding.  The last one I was at was at a zoo, of all places

There has been some pretty darn interesting fiction written on a dinner taker's note pad.  I know because I've received the fictional orders of which were written.

There really ought to be a Pulitzer given for that catagory

When I toured, I loved going to NYC, because almost all men I saw were in suits. I personally find them to be an instant turn on. Equally, I also enjoy a nice pair of dress pants, crisp collared shirt with a power tie.  

But I've seen men in shorts and tennis shoes too. The money all spends the same at the end of the day  I'd say wear what makes you feel good about yourself. I know if I fee like I look good, I enjoy myself better, and in turn, the gentleman had a better time too.

...you choose over $10,000. that BPJ is an actor.  You got the balls to take the bet?  I'll rely on the bullshit guys post on these boards:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=870279&boardID=12&page=#870279

What do you say GaG?

but if his writings here are indicative of his "professional" writings, I would be more than happy to take him up on his wager of "biggest monthly paycheck"

I am sure his biggest paycheck was in the six digits, if and only if 1,000.00 counts as six digits.

I would further wager that either of us could make a better living writing comedy than BPJ.  

Remember "Last Comic Standing"?  Well I KNOW I am funnier than BPJ. YOU are a hundred times funnier as well. I think the funniest thing he ever wrote was his claim to having been paid six digits for his comedic writings, now THAT is hilarious. lmao