So, I performed many searches.  I flipped through 15 pages of most recent postings.  I know it must have been discussed to death, but I couldn't find it.  Here's my story:

I'm into those itinerant BP girls, kinda slutty, $200 / hr range.  They don't have web-sites, or photo spreads from Arlo Argento ( or whatever his name is).  They are the La Quinta Queens.

But occasionally I want to see one of the Thorobreds that advertise here (I mean that in only the most complimentary way). How can I pass screening?  I don't have two references from gals with web-sites or other high profile.  I'd rather not provide employment information.  

And why do I need to renew the screening every 6  months?  Have I joined the police force recently?  Have I become a serial killer?  No, and no.  

Any help would be greatly appreciated...   DD

I'm not the same person I was two years ago.  

Your email could have been confiscated or hacked. You could have gone thru something traumatic. You could have suddenly developed a fondness for choking and spanking. You could have moved from a single family home in the burbs to a studio in an unsafe area.  

And, once you get over a couple months, your previous reference may not remember you or details of your session beyond 'He didn't kill me.'

Sometimes, an extensive reference history on P411, even if the last was a couple years ago, is enough. Helps you get all your ducks in one place and shows that you are a real person that isn't trying to hide anything, you just don't play often.

try to get whitelisted by a provider who has reviews and knows about TER. P411 same deal. You could have a couple of reviews under your account, which would legitimize you as a safe client to provider for.  

The last resource I would think of is, provide the number and name of the last couple of providers you saw. but like the other poster said. If the other girls keep no record or have poor memory of you, that would be the least reliable option

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you have driven a bicycle, and you now want to take a Lexus for a spin, and you are really asking why you need a license and "insurance" to do so?

Maybe they'll let you fly Air Force One for kicks too?

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because those are the rules she has established.

The more difficult you make it, the more difficult it will be.

If you don't want to submit to her screening requirements then don't request an appointment with her, it's really that simple.

Remember, these ladies are putting themselves in somewhat dangerous position, the more you follow their screening the more comfortable they will be with you, and the more comfortable they are the more fun you'll have.

If a guy’s wardrobe request is duct tape and sheets of plastic, it’s usually a bad sign.

Now, you made me smile a BIG smile. Very good advice!

If only everyone understood this. Perfect response!

Not the fact that screening needs to be recent, that is just common sense.

What I don't understand is the statement by the OP that he needs to "renew" screening every six months if he doesn't know how to get screened in the first place. Is it just me, or is this a rather odd statement from a guy who hasn't been screened even once, much less needing to get "rescreened"???  Something in the OP just rings a bit hollow to me.

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That's like saying "five of the six chambers are empty" to a guy playing Russian Roulette, it only takes ONE crazy or vindictive woman to completely ruin a man's life, we all know that seemingly "reputable" ladies go "off the tracks" all the time. If I had a life that demanded discretion there is no way in hell that I would give out my employment info either.

Well - several years ago I managed to see a wonderful woman a couple of times.  She dropped out of sight for a while then resurfaced.  I contacted her, asked about meeting, and even though we had history she said "Sorry, need to be re-screened".  Even though I had *pages* of email correspondence to show her...

Oh, ****, I do so miss kissing you...

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some men lose it when they become attached and go off too.
some men lose it when they get told no. i just had someone text me tonight and i said i wasn't available and he told me to fuck off.

 
maybe we should just shut ter down.

you either screen how a lady wants to or you find someone else.
its that simple.
just because someone is paying to spend time with us doesn't mean that we have to
1) say yes to see them
2) do everything they ask

i can be staying at the best hotel ever, but i can't check in without an id. not all need a credit card. some take cash and some don't care about incidentals. i can't call downstairs and demand housekeeping at 1am. if i don't like their rules, i just stay somewhere else next time

But Mellissa is not saying that, she is saying that guys have NOTHING to worry about, and we all know that's not true.

For the record, I don't mind at all supplying all the personal information in the world as I am "blackmail proof" but I can completely understand why many guys would not feel so comfortable doing so as their lives would be completely ruined, marriage over, career over, everything they care about ripped from them all because they trusted the wrong person with a secret.  

and yes, men can be every bit as spiteful and vindictive as any BSC hooker, I don't blame you ladies for asking for the info, I know I would want to know who I was letting into my bed as well if I did this for a living, but Mellissa is trying to downplay the risk to the guys as is it were inconsequential, and we all know that is simply not the case.