If so, what are the give-aways?

Do you ask, and if so, do they deny?

Do they volunteer it and if so, what do you say to them?

God, am I nosy today

..hope there is sincere response.

Because they usually tell me first. And I have to do an alternative screening because they don't have references. But yes even if they didn't tell me I would know...its like having sex with a virgin at first lol usually stammering making little small talk about how they are nervous and its their first time. I kinda like it though,lol its cute...I have a way with making people at ease so in 5 or 10 min all the nervousness seems to vanish....

But can't give away my secrets...not even to you good sir

G xo

Usually for screening reasons they must but I have had a few first timers not able to perform because they were so nervous, it happens! But when they come back they feel more confident!

Agreed, most do freely admit it, as they are nervous about not having references. Some guys are confident others aren't, and some will be nervous no matter how many providers they see. That is where a gifted provider is able to help them be at perfect ease very quickly.

How gifted? Like being able to unwrap him and give him the gift of a BBBJ while he's fumbling for the envelope? 😨

That stills works for me. The bbbj part anyway