do you guys think that the ethnicity of the john might influence how well the provider performs?  thanks for input.

Only in that if a provider doesn't do a certain ethnic group, she won't perform at all. Otherwise, if sh thinks you're fine no matter what your skin color is, she'll enjoy the session that much more and put that extra twist in her hips.

Lets just say hobbyists, Im one of those prudey hookers(eom)

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I base a meeting purely on personality & chemistry.  If a person is kind and treats me well, I will return the favor, etc, etc..

then they clearly don't discriminate! LOL

Seriously, like anything or anyone in life, sure some will be biased, but I'd say on the whole, if you show a lady respect, and treat them well, I really don't think your ethnicity will matter.

Just my .02

Now, Luucccyyy, where are you?

Yes I was going to say. Cubans love the red headed white chicks

other physical traits such as age, ht, build, and relative attractiveness....

But a much larger component of performance IMO encompasses personality, connection, chemistry, kindness, and having things in common -- background, hobbies, etc.

(and not counterfeit), you could be pink with purple polka dots and I wouldn't care.... as long as you treat me with respect.  That's not to say that some providers prefer not to see certain ethnic gents.  I'm just not one of them.  If you're worried about it, simply ask the provider if she sees clients of your particular ethnic background.  That way you avoid the situation all together.

there is a lot of discrimination (or just preferences) as far as class and race on both ends.  it is what it is. but, the guy who has poor hygiene is going to get the short end of the stick regardless.  so be as clean, curteous and as well-groomed as humanly possible and you will probably be ok.  worry about the things you can control.

I diffently do not think it matters  as long as they  are clean, nice, well groomed and respectful xo

For some providers, it almost surely does. For others, it makes no difference. One of the great things about the hobby is that there is a endless variety of providers available and if one seek them out, a hobbyist can laways find a provider that fit a particular need.

Wouldn't it be a better for providers to list crietria for service? There are several ladies here in Chicago who do it and I don't think their business suffers, save for some 'hate' mail from time to time. I have seen African American ladies exclude members of their own race but not for the same reason. Some don't want to run into locals who may know them or their families. Afterall, it's a pretty small world. While living in Atlanta, I came across two ladies in the business that I was acquainted with through friends. One, a latina, was shocked that I knew and it freaked her out so she said for that reason, "no-no."

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