Have scheduled a session with ATF with her being submissive. Since I am not up to speed on that kind of session, I was wondering if anyone had a good web site to recommend or advice.
BDSM? (That sounds wonderful)
My recommendation, (as someone who's a relative newbie in this world), is not to pretend you know how to do something you don't know how to do. You could take out an eye!
There are terrific BDSM ladies that frequent the boards...but I don't know about July 4th weekend. (I'm thinking Dawn (redheadedbbw) and Kim Kelly)
Or you could: "Ask Mistress Marisha!"
http://www.eros-noir.com/framesets/smallscreen.htm?homepage
That's the home page, click "features" and find Mistress Marisha's link.
But the most important conversation is going to be with your ATF to establish the ground rules of your playtime. "Safe, Sane, and Consensual", safe words, and what fetishes you both enjoy.
Feel free to email me. [email protected]
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You should be very careful if you're not experienced. Definitely research and read as much as you can and stay conservative with your play until you know what you're doing. Other than that... have fun with your new adventures!
AAhhh my mind wanders to recollections of Donna Reed vacuuming the carpets in a simple but elegant house dress, adorned with her signature pearl necklace. The addition of a well endowed male hiking up the hem of her dress and ravenously burying himself deeply in her rectum puts a sublime variation to an otherwise chase depiction of this iconic American ideal of submission.
Probably not to helpful of an answer but an enjoyable musing none the less.
AFRS
Not about to say a lot but one thing you do need to have is a "safe word" and if she uses it you STOP at once whatever it is you're doing.
Enough said.
Now is this Sub in the Los Angeles/Orange County area? if so Email me who she is so I can hook up with her!
Thanks for the reply. Sorry she is on the other side of the US from you.
Thanks for the suggestions and links. I have discovered that this life style is totally opposite of what society likes to picute it as being. It demands many things that should be in a vanilla realtionship, but usually aren't there.
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/what_is_s_m.htm
http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/
You both may also want to consider a play partner checklist as well so you are are on the asme page!!
Enjoy your first time!!
xoxo
Katt