Over the last 45 months, the economy has had lots of, well, uh... INTERESTING effects on the Hobby; especially in Tennessee, where our economic growth has bolstered our local markets to the degree that the we are barely feeling the Recession now being experienced robustly in other parts of our great country.  
Some effects have been good, some have been annoying and some have been outright bad; whether Provider or Admirer, you have felt this.

But over the last few weeks I have had a delightfully positive experience... an unexpectedly positive experience... with two new Touring Friends, Nadia & Aylin; and I want to share for a hot minute.

I know ALL of US, Admirer and Provider alike, including those of us who otherwise have stellar reputations, have had someone write something about them that is patently untrue, at least in the way it was written & presented.  
I’m not talking about the subjective, like...  
“Bandit Rex isn’t really my type, and while I hate to say it, he probably should have brushed his teeth one last time before knocking on my door.” That doesn’t give me the warm fuzzies, but fair enough  
INSTEAD, I’m talking about the patently untrue...  
“Bandit Rex is a disgusting nazi, he has a limp, micro penis with a lumpy enlargement job and both he and his schlong smell like a 100-year-old man! Ladies, RUN don’t walk away from him.”  

I know all of us, the ladies more than the men, have had that shit happen! and ladies I am sorry  

BTW, THIS is why TER and P411 need to be more responsive to the concerns of established Providers... because if you aren’t, TRUST ME, one successful entrepreneur to another, you are going to kill both of these sites... and none of us want that... I sure don’t!

But I digress, back to my point... all of us, including those of us who otherwise have stellar reputations, have unfairly had this happen; usually by an individual whose insecurity has driven them to the point of being irrational.
 
I have had one irrational Provider who, about 18 months ago, got into a tiff with me and another nationally respected Provider and, as an extension, she did just such a thing.
I have White Hats out the keister and 40+ Okays, but that one black mark still rears its head from time to time, frightening other Touring Providers, which I completely understand.  
But the point of this post isn’t really about the patently unfair bullshit that gets said about all of us, it is about two wonderful Touring Friends and how they handled it with me.
Nadia Von Cos and Aylin are new to me; they are both beautiful, sweet, sexy women who also have a really high level of emotional intelligence!

Not only are they both Ferrari-Class-Unicorns... and everything a gentleman is looking for (see my Reviews for that); but they are great communicators!  
They saw that black mark, but instead of immediately freaking out and running away OR being rude to me... they simply asked me about it and gave me ample opportunity to explain myself and point them in the direction of a few dozen other ladies who could say otherwise; and I was just so impressed at how they carved out a WIN-WIN for all of us!  
Nadia Von Cos and Aylin, I really like them!

Long story short, I really, really am impressed with these ladies and I wanted my first few posts back to be positive, useful information for Admirers and Providers alike!    

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