What does a lady do when the references from guys are all from the same provider?
I am set to Visit lexington and five guys gave the same lady as a references

..... in Omaha (Nebraska) though where a lot of guys used at least 2 of the same ladies as references. When it came up I'd send them an email with either in the subject or body of the email adding "another reference request" and make a little joke about it lol. Hey when they're popular in their hometown is what it is and she'll understand (hopefully) .

Don't you feel a bit weird asking? …I feel very embarrassed

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha

..... in Omaha (Nebraska) though where a lot of guys used at least 2 of the same ladies as references. When it came up I'd send them an email with either in the subject or body of the email adding "another reference request" and make a little joke about it lol. Hey when they're popular in their hometown is what it is and she'll understand (hopefully) .

...there's nothing like showing your appreciation and getting to know someone a bit to dissolve tension.  Maybe if you see so many of the same clients you'd make good doubles partners, even?

The only issue is the guy gets pissed off that we won't ask..They have a sensitivity chip missing I guess

I would rather throw in a commission…..but your idea may work too

I totally feel you. I would feel like I was imposing if I asked for 5 refs. I think perhaps a constructive approach mite work. You mite explain that 5 gents have given her as a ref. You feel that since you are asking for a lot of help, you would like to offer help in return. Offer to give her advice for visiting your city. Or how about doing a trade where you are each other's business coach. Talk to each other about your challenges and offer advice. Tell her that you are willing to give her advice BEFORE she gives the ref information.  

Most girls should not be jealous and not care.  At least I do not!  I even email my guys when a girl comes to town that I know and recommend they see her.  It seems guys are more appreciative when I do this as it helps them meet quality girls with no drama when I am not available and helps my friends as well.  This is how it used to be all the time and it was a happier place but it seems now girls do get jealous and do not share references like they used to.  If ever you need a reference in TN I would be happy to assist anyone.  I am a reference friendly provider!