99% of the gentlemen I see are just that...gentlemen.  Their not Johns or tricks or dollar signs.  They are gentlemen who know who to treat a lady and appreciates a lady who knows how to treat them. They conduct themselves with class, respect and intelligence.  They are great people and a pleasure to be around.  I enjoy every aspect of our meetings and look forward to the next one.

Then there's the 1%...

As any lady in this industry knows screening is never 100% safe, nothing really is.  Just because a guy screens well does NOT mean he's going to be the kind of client I want to see again.  

I met a new client at his hotel.  I walked in to see an STD test and 2 piles of money on the table.  He didn't waste anytime showing me his test, expecting me to do BB.  I explained to him that I don't do that, test irrelevant.  He got upset and mentioned the names of other ladies that gave him what they wanted.  He expected me to be mindless enough to say "OK, since someone else obliged, I should too". Apparently anyone who has done adult films is irresponsible with their personal health and I'm the only adult actress he's seed that denied his request.  I seriously doubt that.  Regardless, BB is never an option with me.  We sat down, started chatting and everything seemed fine until he started asking for things not on my menu. I have a pretty good menu however, I do have my limits.  After telling him I don't offer those things, he walks over to the table and picks up the larger pile of money and started handing me money asking me what my price is to do those things.  

At this point I feel totally disrespected, turned off and no longer interested in the meeting.  I told them I don't do those things and no amount of money he can throw at me is going to make me suddenly enjoy them.  I don't offer what I don't enjoy because it will show in my service and I won't enjoy our time together.  I prefer to see gentlemen that are looking for what I offer.  We both have the highest quality experience that way.  I'm not going to wast my time or the time and money of another if I don't provide what someone is looking for.  

He offered me more money then told me how disappointed he was because he was expecting certain acts and BB.  Had he read my reviews and maybe did a quick TER search of my posts (I've posted in a few cities over the years), he would have got a good idea of what I offer and what I don't.  It only takes a few minutes to do a little research.  

I ended up leaving early...he wouldn't stop complaining about what I don't offer and I just lost interest.  It was no longer enjoyable for me and he's not the kind of guy I want to spend time with...money irrelevant.  I enjoy what I do.  The day it becomes work will be the day I quit.

This experience renews an appreciation for the great clients I do have.  I do this very part time and I want every meeting to be enjoyable for the both of us.  It's not at all enjoyable when someone is trying to buy me out of my dignity.  

Thank you to all the good respectful gentlemen who treat me with respect and thank you to all that don't see me when I'm not what their looking for.

It's not me who disappointed him, it's his assumptions that just because I did films I have no boundaries, dignity or preferences.  

Have a blessed weekend,

Becca Blossoms

It's not me who disappointed him, it's his assumptions that just because I did films I have no boundaries, dignity or preferences.