Just kinda tired by all the fake and airbrushed pics these days.  A big disappointment when you get to the appt if you know what I mean.

so far people who have met say I look better in person than in the photos. I think it is better to have more realistic photos and impress when the guy shows up than having too nice photos and the guy is disappointment at arrival.

I bet! The thing is, is that there is no need! Someone is bound to find what you have to offer as sexy without the photo affects.

That is definitely an unnecessary truth... It isnt needed - A person is beautiful with all perfections and flaws. Don't let it discourage you though, as there are several naturally beautiful people that do not airbrush photos. Good luck.  

I started posting my real age and generally when I see a new person they are surprised and happy.  Although I blur my face, my phots are of me and I really am 50.