I guess I want to generate some discussion here.  Today, I read a review of a provider in my favorites list where the reviewer mentioned being a bit shy about discussing a fetish of his with the provider he arranged to meet.

I've seen more than my fair share of providers, over the years, and some I've been comfortable discussing fetishes with and others I haven't.  In those cases, it wasn't really a "comfort" thing as much as I didn't think they would be open to it, or would "get it", or whatever.  These days, I usually wait a couple of sessions (maybe 3 or so) before heading down the 'fetish' path, unless we really get along well and we both think fetish exploration would enhance our time together.

So, do you talk about your fetishes with the ladies you see or do you tend to keep them private/secret?