I have met the person. Went to his residence. Supposedly upscale but a small dirty house. When I saw the piles of dirty clothes, dirty dishes, medication bottles (covering one side of the whole kitchen counter as well as jammed in an open carry on suitcase in the middle of the living room) I spooked out. I tried to put my best face on but I was already disturbed. He grabbed a dirty glass and grabbed one of the almost empty bottles of wine and hand it to my hand. No, I did not drink. I hate asking for donation and it was nowhere to be seen so I mentioned it. He gave me 100 less and when I mentioned it he said this is what he thought my rate was. I hate talking about this honestly. Then he got closer and told me he would give me that hundred if I let him go with no cover. UGH!!! At that point I really spooked out and told him I am not getting a good vibe and feeling really uncomfortable with the whole situation and I would like to leave, and that is what I did. He told me he had to go to Whole foods anyways and grabbed the medicine filled carry on suitcase and left the house right after me. We went on our separate ways... me walking faster than ever. The juicy parts never happened except fully clothed and some fondling on his side and that was not juicy.  
So, it is ok if someone does not like you, or you are not their type, etc but it is not fair to get a bad review  looking like a bad tooth among your other 9s and 10s, for something never happened.  
I am not ranting (maybe I am a bit) but is it worth reporting it? I know it is difficult to take the reviews down and there is no way I can prove my side except this memory of mine. I also don't want this man to contact me in any ways if TER contacts him to investigate the situation.  
So what to do? Just leave it there and let my other reviews talk the talk? I guess I need some assistance.

Thank you very much for reading this far.


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Those vindictive reviews stick out like a sore thumb to clients who check reviews.  Just like when you research a hotel or a restaurant on Yelp or whatever, you can totally tell when someone was just mad about the menu/room pricing or whatever and is being overly-picky about everything, etc.

Unfortunately challenging un-deserved bad reviews here will get you a reputation as a drama queen.  Best to contact TER quietly about it and then just let it go if/when they refuse to take it down.  Your other reviews will talk the talk for you and this guy's bad review will make HIM look like the red flag to watch out for, not you.  Sometimes bad/mediocre reviews oddly even seem to boost curiosity about you and in turn, your business.

The review system isn't fair exactly and it feels wrong to have your reputation damaged by an undeserved bad review.  However, it really won't ruin your business and as you continue to get reviews it will slip further and further away from the front of your profile until it's just a blip on your radar and everyone who reads your old reviews will wonder what his problem was.

Someone gave me a 5 for performance once and lied in the review about why.  I was upset at the time, but in retrospect it didn't really matter one bit that he did that, except that I allowed my feelings to be hurt by it because I didn't realize how little his opinions/lies/review mattered.  Some of us hold ourselves to high standards and false reports can be frustrating to us.  But it'll be fine in the long run.  It'll even be fine in the short run!  Don't sweat it and just keep doing your thing.  

I did talk to TER and they were very helpful, though according to them I had a session since I was there. Therefore they can not take the review down but let the person edit  the details if I contact him and politely ask him to do so.  
I will not sweat through it. I believe the review has low score because probably he was upset and that is ok.  
While I can be a model material to some I can be average to someone else I guess. While my appointment would be one in a lifetime to someone , it can be just average to another also.  
The funny thing is, I wish we ladies could rate the clients. My personal life standards are pretty high when it comes to what I like in a man.. But here I try to treat everyone as a center of attention, no matter how overweight, how skinny, how tall, how short, how old how young, how strong how weak, how good in bed or how bad.... Everyone is treated equally as long as they are gentlemen.  
Xo

It really just boils down to he-said-she-said. Nobody else beside the two really knows what the real story was.  

If you're one who always had a stellar record of reviews one bad one every once in a blue moon is not going to affect the big picture much. Most of us who research reviews know full well of that. Also we can be forgiving as we know everyone has a bad hair day once in a while.

If you just had a bad review then make sure to ask the next ten or so clients to give you as good review as possible to counter the lone bad one. Of course that means you'll have to deliver well to convince them

One bad review accompanied by many good ones do not dissuade me as a client.  One buddy even says that if he sees a bad review, he has more faith in the good ones because he figures that all the good ones are not shills.  The only super bad review that would dissuade me is if she flakes, incall or outcall.  As mentioned, I see it as many view yelp.  I would generally see the super bad review as one disgruntled client really took his frustration out and overreacted.  Your good reviews will simply overwhelm the one bad review IMO.

I agree. One bad review among many good reviews actually gives you more credibility.

Since you mentioned the grades you got it did not take long to figure out who the lady who is upset is. First of all give the mongers some credit. We can read between the lines of your reviews and come to our own conclusions as to what really happened.

A quick glance of your reviews tells me that your first review was by a very experienced out of town monger who was quite impressed with your looks and skills. That review put you on the map.

The next one was a newbie reviewer.

Your third one is the one you are upset about. I don't blame you for being upset but it's easy to see through this review. He was hoping for a much younger woman. He was disappointed. In reading his service review it is obvious that his attitude towards you spilled over into that rating. Furthermore, it is obvious from clicking on his review history that he usually sees ladies in their 20's.

Based on a quick investigation, any man can see that his review is spiteful. Since men are quite capable of thinking for themselves, I don't think this review will hurt you in the slightest.

Men need to realize that a TER review is the most respected ,definitive and prestigious review on the internet. Therefore  a review should not be vindictive. Negative things should not be said because she was not his type or because they did not click.

Women need to realize that TER reviews are a privilege not a right. It takes a lot of time and trouble to get a review posted here. Wanting to write public "reviews" of clients sounds almost as petty and vindictive as the guy who wrote you the bad review.

I know you are a good person and it looks like you just got another great review from an experienced monger. I'm sure you will get more great reviews in the future. Be patient and rise above this little bump in the road.

a relationship with a provider. and know she might have this happen to her.

f'ing creepy!.