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Thoughts on talking during sessions
MysteryAdmin 69 Reviews 1099 reads
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Today, I read a review of a gorgeous companion I would love to meet some day.  During this review, the reviewer indicated they spent 1 hr talking during a 2hr appt.  I have no issue with "natural" conversation lasting longer than "intended," but in the review, the reviewer also indicated the companion encouraged prolonging the conversation.    

I actually like booking 2-3+ hr appts now because I like having the extra time for conversation, ice-breaking, getting warmed up and so on.  However, I can understand how frustrating it can be to "stuck" in conversation when you want to progress to other things.   So, it can be tricky to strike the right balance.

What are your thoughts conversation during longer duration appointments?  Good?  Bad?  Enjoyable?  Frustrating?

Also, for any companions who might be reading this, what are your thoughts on conversation during longer appointments?  ("Longer" = more than 1 hr)  Do you get frustrated when clients don't want to talk and want spend the 2-3 hours doing other things?  Or do you prefer keeping appointments focused on the agreed upon services and nothing more?

Thanks in advance for your thoughts!  :)

chunking126 reads

I used to stick to providers with native/fluent English.  HK CiCi is a good example.  She'd run her motor mouth on a wide variety of topics, and it was a hoot.  I'd have sessions with her where we didn't even get around to the main event.

My regular of 3 years used to spend 30 minutes chatting before getting to it, not sure if she was lonely or her way of calming her nerves.  I got to the point where chit-chat was on her dime (I paid 30 min rate for a 1hr session).  Again, it was great, as long as she didn't indulge in drama.

I can only speak for myself, as I spend all day in front of screen surrounded by anti-social ESL folks..

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MysteryAdmin111 reads

Posted By: chunking
I'd have sessions with her where we didn't even get around to the main event.  
I've experienced this as well with a couple of companions.  The very first time that happened, we somehow got on the topic of a family member of hers dying (mother maybe?) and that sort of "killed the mood", to say the least.   The second time was fairly recently and the "ice breaking" banter pretty much lasted throughout our time together.  At one point, I had written off doing anything physical so I engaged more with the conversation.

Thanks for the reply!

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j4play104 reads

HK Cici was a notoriously energetic chatterbox, but also a fucking good time.  I enjoyed her rambling observations, reflections, advice, etcetera, because it was it was usually after a glorious release, and delivered with mutual body rubbing, but to call it a conversation, I don't know, going well over the hour at least one time that I recall.    She just talked in her broken or heavily accented English, and I just tried to listen, nodded in agreement or said yes baby, tell me more.   What a ton of fun, I miss her absence.  

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chunking115 reads

Damn. She's ALMOST worth a trip to Hong Kong to track her down.  She was so odd, combined with her outsized hands and feet (for such a tiny woman), that I was convinced for a while she had to be a post-op TG.

One day, my curiosity got the better of me, slid my finger into her V, and was almost shocked to find that she was a GG.

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Posted By: chunking
Re: With the right personality, it's better than the s.x
Damn. She's ALMOST worth a trip to Hong Kong to track her down.  She was so odd, combined with her outsized hands and feet (for such a tiny woman), that I was convinced for a while she had to be a post-op TG.  
   
 One day, my curiosity got the better of me, slid my finger into her V, and was almost shocked to find that she was a GG.
Never had any doubts that she was a GG.

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