This, of course, is an erroneous statement. Surely there are a few - Sasha Love comes to mind, and Shylyn plus a few others who frequently grace the board with their ads. But these lovely and generous ladies make up such a tiny percentage of companions here in the SF Bay Area that they are the tiniest of exception to the rule.
So, you don't like kissing? I can understand that, I guess. But when I see the volume of reviews from other parts of the country, even LA just a bit to the South, and other parts of the world, where DFK is quite common, I wonder about why SF is generally so strict on this point.
I think it has much to do with the fact that the provider is not use to you? I have found that the more you see one provider the better the experience...ymmv, so pick one that you want a gfe with and treat her nice, watch what happens...
I have a provider that fits my needs in the gfe area, took some time [and $], but I found her!
But I tend to like to be a regular. I go and see a girl I like many, many times over many, many months. Out of the several dozen girls I've seen, I've never had one kiss me who didn't do so on the first date. I have, however had a couple who once did kiss, but eventually because of increased volume of clients or a jealous SO, stopped kissing. That was particularly disconcerting. I'm a nice, very well mannered and reasonably attractive man. And a good kisser, with impeccable hygiene, so I don't think it's me.
I'm glad that it worked out for you, and you found something special in terms of business. But I think that generally a gal plays by her rules and her rules don't change. Nor should they. That kind of progression could be taken the wrong way.
One of thing I also have notice is that there is a lot more discussion on the other area boards than the SF Board. Could there be a correlation?
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Of course there is our friendly competitor, sfredbook. They were here in SF before TER got here, and a lot of people got used to using and relying on their services.
The few times I've looked in on their discussion boards, there didn't seem to be a lot of value going on there either.
One thing I think TER offers that doesn't seem to be true about sfredbook, is an open forum for the ladies. We welcome and love the ladies here, don't allow them to get slammed, flamed or verbally abused here. The ladies don't seem to be using the resources of TER to their best advantage. Some day soon, I hope they will start making the most of it.
I agree. I hope the provider do take advantage of the open forum. It would be nice to get their vantage point. Most of the provider use this board to post ad. Which is fine, but I think they can help themselve alot by become more invloved in the discussion. In fact the conversation they have on this forum could be used as part of their screening process. It would also help them to get to know some of the loyal hobbyist.
I would think most of the independents would want a lot of regulars and this could be one way to get to know the individual client who has been doing this for a long time and will continue to. They may like your personalty from reading your comments and after meeting with you. Decide to become one of your regulars. That may not be true in all case, but it does not hurt to get your name out.
the city by the bay.
