Some of these out of town providers are so damn desirable. But I'm not a monetary big shot like perhaps other members of this online community. I can't pay for their travel and extended bookings to bring them out here.
I suspect others may be in the same boat. To these others I say: what are your thoughts on pooling resources? What if we all chipped in a little to bring some of these gals out here? I can't imagine us trusting any of each other to manage this. But it seems to me, it could be done through the provider. Namely, each client (already having been screened and confirmed a date) could deposit their portion with the provider. Is this just too much wishful thinking? Any potential hereAnd I may be wrong as I do not know the other guys here that much but asking a bunch of Johns to give that level of trust to a girl they have not met yet.
That is asking ALOTbefire you go any further google it.
I suspect others may be in the same boat. To these others I say: what are your thoughts on pooling resources? What if we all chipped in a little to bring some of these gals out here?
I can't imagine us trusting any of each other to manage this. But it seems to me, it could be done through the provider. Namely, each client (already having been screened and confirmed a date) could deposit their portion with the provider.
Is this just too much wishful thinking? Any potential here?
Inherent in what we do in this hobby is trusting providers we've never met. While it is true that cold hard cash is different from screening info, both have value, both have importance.
I don't reach out to a provider unless I've researched her reviews, social media, personal website, and ads, and determined that she is legit. Why would this be any different?There are plenty of guys who participate in "fly me to you" packages where they send you the cost of your airfare when booking the date or send deposits for longer dates. It is not that strange.
That is asking ALOT
Exactly right, ladies. I don't believe there's any issue or danger here from the provider perspective. Rather, the difficulty here I'm sure would be the "herding cats" of trying to organize multiple clients to reach out to the same provider re: the same timeframe.
Which, of course, is what I'm testing the waters for with this post, to see if it's feasible. Only naysayers so far, unfortunately....This is not anything I would do on behalf of either the client or the provider. Each prospective client would research the provider on their own, contact the provider directly, submit their own screening info, pay and schedule an individual session.
I am merely saying, could we all try for it in roughly the same timeframe and see what the lovely lady herself thinks about taking multiple, smaller deposits.I can see once cleared, and possibly after an initial meeting, a gentleman doing a fly to me package but
initial meet being a fly to me, that seems awfully risky for the girl but hey, more power to you ladies. I look forward to seeing how many guys will reply and go for it.I doubt that the immediate (and only hobbyist) reaction being megative has helped the chances though.
To be fair, I would admit, I've never done a fly to me, like I said I am not a monetary big shot. So I can't endorse it out of my own experience. Nevertheless, even after only a couple years in the hobby I've developed a respect for the integrity of -- well certainly the upper-tier providers. And I have yet to be disappointed by any of them.