I have seen enough porn videos to know what to expect. Most go by the same formula. But, where do they find these guys with huge dicks? Seriously, have you ever seen a guy in a porn video with a small dick?
The last time I was in a locker room/shared shower was during my military service and that was a long time ago. I considered myself to be average back then. I'm a lot older now and there has been some "shrinkage." Maybe from lack of use? Hey, that's why I'm here! So ... Ladies of TER I ask you, what is the average size penis you see? Also, the old cliche that size doesn't matter, is that true? Really? Come on, fess up and tell us. It has to matter some. Do you prefer length, girth, or a combination of both? In your opinions, what can a man with a smaller tool do to help mitigate this and be able to please you? I know you are paid to please us but I KNOW when you are with us hobbyists you like it better when we can please you, too. Help us please you while you are doing so much to please us. By the way, I have a good idea that feedback will include the use of hands, fingers, mouth, tongue, etc. We still want your opinions.don't ask questions you don't want the answers to!
when your name is "BigPeter."
lol it's just a handle, not necessarily reflective of reality, more like wishful thinking lol
lovely providers like you, you don't need to be modest here.
As long as there is enough cock to fill me all the way up, I'm totally happy with it. That would include 90% of them. If it's not big enough to hit the top, shall I say, I could wish for more, but so what? There's so much else we can do.
If it's very long and skinny, it can be a bit "pokey", and it's owner should be careful with it. (VERY few fall into this category, so don't worry). If it's humongous, two problems might occur. First, the guy might be not realize he can hurt someone with that thing and be overly enthusiastic. Secondly, he might be aware of the fact that he can hurt someone and be too gentle (much more common), even when I ask for more. It seems like it wouldn't be the greatest thing to have a huge cock that you can never sink all the way into a woman. Many guys who have great cocks consider themselves to be on the small side when they are not because they compare themselves to porn cocks. Some of you guys might be surprised to learn that many guys aren't that interested in pleasing the woman. If you are, it SHOWS and we appreciate you, regardless of the size of the cock. This is so much more important, really.I'm going to tell you why you have crickets on your post. You are putting our providers in a no-win situation. You have asked them to comment on men's equipment. No matter how they answer, they may alienate some of their own customers. That's why you're getting nothing from them. You are putting them in an impossible situation with nothing to gain and everything to lose. Who wants to play that game?.
I applaud your efforts to get this board going a little better, but you need to be a little more thoughtful about questions you post on here. Before you ask providers for their opinions or observations, put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself how it might affect your business if you answer the question one way or another. It might help you find a better way to pose the questions you are thinking of. Just my opinion based on what is, and is not, happening here with your post.Thank you, Freya. I actually suspected you might comment here. Thank you for that. Any other ladies willing to comment here?
I get your point. But, it's obvious that just because the question is raised, doesn't mean a person has to answer. But then, all you have to do is read Freya Fantasias reply to see your argument for s a little flat. Her post was well thought out, well written, and included some very useful advice. I highly doubt she will lose any customer over her comments.
I hate to ask this, what does OP stand for?
After reading her post, 50% of her customers are going to wonder if they are part of the 10% that "don't fill her up" and leaving her wishing they were bigger. A lot of men are already insecure about their size, and she just threw some gasoline on that fire. Its a total loss for her to even respond, but she did, and I applaud her honesty, but at what cost to her business?
I still say that is why nobody else responded.that she has potentially and unwittingly hurt her business by responding to your post? That seems a little narcissistic on your part, don't you think?
The fact that only ONE provider responded should tell you something unless you are living in a complete vacuum.As I said, I think both our positions are valid to an extent. Your position made me think about mine. Narcissism has nothing to do with it. Freya is a big girl and has been in the business a long time. I think she knows what she's doing. She has quite a following and I think her post was very well written. If some misinterpret her words and are so lacking in self esteem they think she was referring to them, that is their problem. Take her words, take my words at face value. Just because we don't agree doesn't mean either of us is wrong.
They say almost 6 inches is average. That means if all the cocks in the world are lined up the big section if the middle will be close to six inches. I am assuming they mean erect. My preference is....if you have six fold it in half I would rather have a fat three. That is my preference because I think I am built in a way that you can bottom out easier and nothing good about being jammed in the cervix. And there are men who are grow-ers and show-ers. That is, some show pretty much what they got in the relaxed state, it just gets hard and some have little ones that grow quite a bit. And don't compare yourself to the porns. Those are not the average guy. And the performance is usually not what you would do at home. I mean they have a room full of people and film all day to make the short movie you end up seeing. That isn't real in my opinion. That is Hollywood.
So are you saying that pornos should carry a disclaimer in the opening credits like "Fear Factpr" . . .
. . . .Don't try this at home. It could result in serious injury or death?
Or penis burn?
Ouch! That probably applies to both partners.
You must have a very unique toy collection.
The last time I was in a locker room/shared shower was during my military service and that was a long time ago. I considered myself to be average back then. I'm a lot older now and there has been some "shrinkage." Maybe from lack of use? Hey, that's why I'm here! So ...
Ladies of TER I ask you, what is the average size penis you see? Also, the old cliche that size doesn't matter, is that true? Really? Come on, fess up and tell us. It has to matter some. Do you prefer length, girth, or a combination of both? In your opinions, what can a man with a smaller tool do to help mitigate this and be able to please you? I know you are paid to please us but I KNOW when you are with us hobbyists you like it better when we can please you, too. Help us please you while you are doing so much to please us.
By the way, I have a good idea that feedback will include the use of hands, fingers, mouth, tongue, etc. We still want your opinions.
I think all sizes are worthy of a fun time, there's tons to do besides just straight fucking. Larger cocks are nice sometines to get filled up and stuffed, but then again oral can become a real gag session which can be hot, or not, and too big might hurt during sex.
Smaller to medium sized cocks are great too, and then a hot anal session could be on the table then without fear of too much pain. It's all about chemistry more, skill and mixing things up then it is just cock size.