Just read a recent review of this nice provider I've seen a few times. Shocked, sad and very disappointed that the reviewer and provider did not use protection in their session. sigh....
Don't necessarily believe everything you read here. Maybe it happened that way and maybe not. If you've seen her before maybe you could call her, alert her to this review, and get her response for your peace of mind.
It's up to her to decide if she wants anything posted here so I wouldn't pass her response on unless she says OK.
You may be right Dionisios. Perhaps I was over reacting in the first place.
Every so often you see a disclaimer, saying something to the effect that "This review is fictitious and intended only for entertainment purposes." Sometimes they really mean it.
There is always going to be a fraction of TER reviews with their own, largely-unknown agendas, including reviewers who never met the provider (for TER credit), self-postings by providers (hmm! wonder who in S.D. might do that), reviewers who embellish, and even LE (for disinformation, and more nefarious purposes).
All reviews have to be weighed carefully. Perhaps the old saying is applicable, that "... I believe half of what I see, and none of what I hear..."
Reviews like this are why many of the good providers are pulling out of TER. They see personal information regarding themselves or private stuff and it pisses them off. Guys like this will ruin this site. What about the inappropriate comment about the miscarriage?
I agree protection is very important... Which poses the question, is DATY all that good of an idea for client or provider? It seems to be very popular; the responses I read seem to be "the risk comes with the territory". Wouldn't that be a dangerous contradiction when we talk about the importance of "protection"?
Don't take my word for it. Here's what the Center for Disease Control has to say, with a reference if you want more detail.
ftp://ftp.cdcnpin.org/Updates/oralsex.pdf
"Preventing the Sexual Transmission of HIV, the Virus that Causes AIDS - What You Should Know about Oral Sex"
"The risk of HIV transmission during cunnilingus is extremely low compared to vaginal and anal sex. However, there have been a few cases of HIV transmission most likely resulting from oral-vaginal sex."
there are some things that can help lower the risk even more...try using glyoxide oral rinse before and use a listerine strip during...feels great and helps kille germs. After you are done use some mouth wash or more glyoxide...even hydrogen pyroxide works but doesn't taste too good...happy dining
Foolish me. Focusing on AIDS only and forgetting all the other possible nasties. I'm not too embarassed. Providers do this for a living and would be expected to devote more thought to this.
I'm probably preaching to the converted, but if there's even one lady out there who doesn't know this already it's worth it. If the guy has a visible cold sore anywhere on his face, make it "sorry, not today."