Hi,

Question for the providers. Btw, i am using my alias so i am not sure how it will show on my post, but i have more than 10 reviews in case you are wondering.

I am somewhat overweight (245 lb and 6'1") and wonder about how the providers feel about looks. I am not ugly and I haven't got any negative feedback from any of the providers i have seen, but my weight makes me feel self conscious.

Thank you for your reply.

-- Modified on 6/16/2015 7:15:59 PM

While I'm not a provider, I have to say IMO as long as you have the donation, are clean, and respectful your looks are pretty much irrelevant. Don't think the ladies are seeing a bunch of "Prince Charmings" in this business. Attend a M&G, Mixer or Happy Hour sometime, and you'll see for yourself.

-- Modified on 6/16/2015 7:56:12 PM

I expect that providers are able to deal with all types of clients as long as you are kind and respectful. If you have concerns then bring them up with the provider before booking with them. But given your height and weight I wouldn't think you would be much different than many clients.

Hello! I practice body positivity in both my personal life and in this hobby. I focus on chemistry and fostering closeness; looks really do not matter to me as long as my lovers are respectful and practice good hygiene. As a provider, I'm here to make you feel desirable and sexy regardless of what the mirror or scale says!

Dude

At 6 foot one and 245 you are far from overweight. And honestly, the only appearance they should care about is Benjamin versus Franklin.  

NY

Not to worry baby! Most of us ladies know that beauty is more than skin deep.
As long as you are respectful, hygienic and friendly you are going to make many friends here.

I have some "larger/heavier" dates which can make things tricky at times but I have lots of "accessories" to help accommodate sizes... And lots of mirrors to enjoy the view. Two people enjoying one another is a gorgeous site even if both aren't 10/10 in looks... their energy will be a 10/10

....will at least be professional enough to not act like it bothers her and still treats you like a king.
This is P4P ..... your being a little overweight in so low on the totem pole of important things to us.
And no negative feedback from providers yet shows you're just fine.

Although I thought it didn't matter much, it is nice to have it confirmed by the hottest providers in town (and respected hobbyist s too )


-- Modified on 6/17/2015 8:13:01 PM

I don't have time to read all of the posts, but I'm sure they are all telling you the same thing.  It does not matter what you look like or that you are overweight, at all!

The things that make a good client are having references, being reliable, being respectful of time (no over communicating or staying too long), being clean.  Chemistry is icing on the cake.  You just aren't going to see on these boards (unless someone is very new, maybe) that appearance, cock size, or skills as a lover have anything to do with your popularity as a hobbyist.

I agree that attending a meet and greet, mixer, or happy hour is a great way to prove that to yourself!

If you're seeing good providers, you should already have a sense that this is true.  If you want to come see me ever, I will strive to make you feel like you are my favorite guy ever!  And I want that.  It makes me feel good to make you feel good.  Really.

xoxo

Not to show up as lazy but ... ditto... This is a very accurate view point providers and I who have had this conversation, agree. So go's life as well... we all have unique tastes...

Be well. Michelle Rene