kinda frustrated ive been in sd for about 5 days now and my trip isnt all that my ads on different sites are being flagged ive got guys calling scheduling appts not showing up ive only broke even im so irritated uuugh

any reviews for you on TER.  That might be the problem.   San Diego hobbyists are pretty careful about doing their due diligence on new girls.  If you respond to this post, you can add a link.

Here are some tips:

learn the guidelines for posting on the sites you use to be sure your ads aren't removed

choose a good location: nothing scares clients more than a motel

advanced booking: offer incentives to people who schedule in advance but be sure to be ready for them

photos: invest in professional photos. since doing new photos a year ago i have notice a definite increase in inquiries and bookings

don't complain: complaining it's slow or whatever is a major turn off. most guys aren't going to say to themselves "oh she isn't busy, I can't wait to book her" they will think "she must not be busy for a reason"

find a duo partner who might have established clients they can introduce you to

reviews: if you don't have any, get some! they help let people know you're legit and offer what you say
link to your reviews: if you're reviewed email TER support and have them link your reviews to your account. then under your name when you post there is a link directly to your reviews for easy glance at your details for potential dates.

twitter: great for touring and repeat friends who want to keep in touch or to entice new friends

homepage: become a DOT com. it's less than 100/year with web template and domain name. it makes you look more professional and shows an investment in your business and services.

check the ISO board here: also replying to peoples posts here is a good way to get noticed.  

 

 

these are the easy ones to get on

Can you post (or send me) a link to your ad. I may be willing to see you and kick off with a review.

I just saw your post from the other night. If you're in National City, you picked the WRONG place to be. Not much of a chance of any decent hobbiest going down there.

National City is a place men with extra cash in their pockets don't really want to go after dark, unless they have a concealed carry permit.  It also has a reputation for second and third tier providers that can't compete in San Diego proper.  If you relocate back up to downtown, mission valley or beach areas, your business might improve.

Short-term:
- Don't advertise short sessions on TER -- counter-intuitive, but whenever I see providers offer this, I can't help but think that they specialize in "rush jobs"
    * There are online classified ad sites where viewers will be more receptive to short sessions
- Do your best to avoid glaring typos in your ad (e.g. "Fresh Breathe", "if you fine oneself", etc.)

Long-term:
- Get reviewed. Someone from here will give you a shot without reviews. Won't be me, but someone will...
- Get more professional pictures (make the $300-$400 investment for boudoir pics from a photographer who does this for a living)

Good luck!

thanks for the responses here is ad with up to date photos

here you go honey  

Let me first say that I respect you for reaching out to us for advice.  Doing this will put you on the right path.

But in my honest opinion, your ad resembles and reads just like the fake ones.  Any seasoned hobbiest will search your phone number for reviews and until you get a few, most will assume you're just another fake ad.  Have you considered offering a review special...a discount for a client who will write a positive review before he leaves your session.  Once you get a few positive reviews, I imagine your business will increase.

Other than that, as already stated, National City isn't the best location.  You'd be much better renting the cheapest room in Hotel Circle.  Also, use a better camera; your photos don't have the best resolution.  And thank you for not blurring your face...I would never visit a provider without seeing her face first.  

I hope everything works out!

thanks for the advice honey will take all of it into consideration what do you mean fake ad? how so lol ? i tried to make it as realistic as possible

"Fake ads" implies the girl in the ad isn't actually the girl who will open the door, or even worse, a set up or robbery.  These ads tend to look fairly similar and over time you develop an eye for them.

I guess your use of a hundred emojis, capitalizing the first letter of each word, and the standard text picture that says something like "real pics/no flakes/100% me or it's free" is what makes me question it.  All of the BP flakey girls use similar styles.  

Also, are you able to include a link to your personal website in your BP ad?  That adds some credibility.

I hope this didn't sound rude in any way and that it helps your business.  I'm sure you'll do fine.  Just get a few reviews here and there will no longer be any doubt you're the real deal.  

Agreed - National City is not the place to host. Unless there's a good reason, I also avoid hotel circle. Nothing like dropping 2-3 to visit a cheap motel.  

no its ok honey i take corrective critcism very well thanks for the info  

is Escondido a good area?

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I would advise against Escondido as it's a little remote to cater to a lot of potential clients in San Diego.  Most members here will recommend a more central location, such as Hotel Circle/Mission Valley/downtown areas.

be required reading for touring girls using BP.

i've heard hotel circle was bad  

It's not the best part of San Diego, but for your purposes, it should work just fine.  It's basically just a cluster of hotels, surrounded by major highways, which allows for relatively easy access from most places in San Diego.  You'll also find all types of hotels located there, from roach motels to a standard Hilton.

eofm!

I agree with Bic. Hotel Circle isn't the prettiest place to be, but it is very central and convenient. Many reputable local providers are there.

sorry for all the questions some one also told me fashion valley mission valley?

I don't mind the questions...ask as many as you'd like.  

Fashion Valley/Mission Valley are very close to Hotel Circle and I think it would be a good choice.  It's a central location with access to the highways.  

oh ok that sounds great what area would i post in?

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I saw it...just waiting on my newest review to be approved.

I'm not really sure what your asking in terms of "area."  I'm not too familiar with posting ads.  Maybe another provider can help out?

your right thanks for all the help though your awsome