How many of you "Providers" are here in the P4P World to not only make
money, but also to find your "Savior", "Your Knight-in-Shining-Armour",
or "Mr. Save-a-Hoe"? (lol no disrespect to any of us!)
fence" fantasy? (if you're not already betrothed) 0r do you just need a wealthy Prince to sweep you off your feet? How many Clients here are actually "lookin'-for-love-in-all-the-wrong-places"? Do you find yourself seeking a partner for a permanent relationship being
drawn to P4P women or strippers? Is it just a daliance to add excitement to your otherwise dull sex-life? Do you think the P4P lady will provide this same excitement, day-after-day if
you're in a committed relationship? Could you trust each other implicitly? The common saying rings very true; "the way you meet them, is the way you lose them!"
Do yourself a favor Luvs..... There shall be "dangerous curves ahead" whilst living this
"fantasy" .... for real.
I encourage all to learn "mental compartmentalization" whilst hiring Providers, and whilst
seeing Clients.
This technique will greatly afford persons like yourselves, whom think for a long-term
honest relationship to flourish, that it can be had with the aforementioned.
As a Provider, for the last six years +, I compartmentalize my "work life", from my
personal life, and from all of the other facets of my being.
For example.... I've told myself "sex is just sex".... "it isn't love".
(Nor quite frankly do I care about "being in love" these days anyway.)
No matter how great the tryst, and the single or {married} Client's technique,
personality, looks, bank account, and whatever,.... He's a Client and I'm the "Transaction".
I became a Provider for many reasons, one of which, was I enjoy sex, making others feel
good and I have bills to pay!
If you love having sex with Clients, and Providers, then face the reality very quickly,
"the sex and the accouterments are just a role/service which is part of our job description",
nothing more.
Sure, we all say things in-the-heat-of-passion or do things in light of the euphoria.
But one must always remember it is within the throes of pleasure. It's not always "reality".
However out-of-the-boudoir, reverting to the compartmentalized Person/Client/Provider
is best served in one's daily life, keeping it simple, without the unnecessary "dangerous curves"!
Please do offer up one's opinions...
xo Angelina Jones
Hmmmm
In my early days in the hobby infatuation with a lady would happen if we met once a month or more frequently over six months.
Now my visits are two or three months apart for any one lady and I do not repeat with half of them.
Compartmentalization is critical to emotional entanglements.
Recently learned this lesson the hard way. Actually, I have been spending a lot more time in your city to get away from Phoenix because of it. I believed we were more than what we were. Wasted almost 2 years being her emotional support John. We went on trips, met her regularly for lunches, I knew her name, etc.. It's completely crushed me since she discarded me after Covid. Now I only look at this as a hobby and a transaction. I'm getting out and enjoying myself but she's turned me very cold and uncaring to this and it's not as fun as it once was. Probably won't ever be the same for me again.
@Atlas_broken15
I'm sorry you had to experience the pitfalls of having a compassionate
heart and learn the hard way luv.
However, she did you a favor, by severing ties with you during Covid.
Could you imagine still carrying on and wasting 2 more years and money?
Consider yourself having learned and able to move on.
Though now she's turned your heart a bit cold, tis the best way to
proceed in the P4P, because after all, for most, it's just a Business.
Though "the Business" provides lasting connections and sometimes
lasting friendships, it's a very fine line to maneuver for those whom
ultimately are seeking the ever-elusive "happily-ever-after".
Thus my original post of learning the "compartmentalizing" technique,
which shall greatly serve anyone whom delves into P4P.....
"Keep it separate, keep it simple".