I've noticed on more than one provider's website an interesting caveat: the client is expected to keep track of time, and not the provider. The implication, I suppose, is that if you go over time then you should fork over more cash. I tend to avoid most such providers. When I visit a provider, I go for a time out from stress and when I enter her environment I expect her to be thoroughly professional - the space should be well prepared for the encounter, she should not be distracted with her cell or some other peripheral device, and she should be focused on me. I shouldn't be the one to keep track of time, she should.
it's just a boilerplate caveat to ward off clients that purposefully linger. I know of one highly reviewed and highly rated San Diego provider with similar language on her website. It didn't keep me from making an appointment, but I asked about it up front on my arrival. She basically responded "oh i just say that, don't worry about it..." had a great time.
When we mention it we're called clock watchers.
Most providers I have seen have a clock on the wall, or they may put on music that goes for 45 minutes. Usually they want you out of the shower by the 60 minute mark. When I am cut short by a provider, out the door at the 45 minute point, even if I have spurted, I don't go back.
On the other hand if she gives me 10 extra minutes of conversation at the end, I will keep that in mind and return. I don't always expect it but if we are having a nice post-cum chat it would not hurt her to keep talking for a little bit. This is a service business. Providers should encourage the return of good clients by smiling, having a friendly talk at the end (time permitting) and just saying "today was nice, I hope to see you again soon."
I don't watch the clock…I can count on my hand the times I have had to look at the clock…Often gents will ask me the time and I truly have no idea and look. It seems they are very courteous and aware of the timeframe. A few guys will stay up until the last minute of a session, just like a few guys will want to have MSOG… (they ALL want to know you offer it though!!!…I do and encourage it!) It seems to work well for me, this system of a non system!
I am a listener/talker and like post chat almost as much as playing. Its all gravy and levels out when you consider a large percentage of gents stay only 15-20 minutes…and they were a glorious 15… I usually let the gentlemen dictate the time watching, but it has never (I hope!) caused anxiety or taken awash from our time.
Right on! That's pretty much how I feel. Clock-work service can be quite acceptable, but if her conversation lingers, and she's showing me stuff around her apartment, or chatting about her pets, or telling me of a great movie she saw, that extra time is something special, and singles her out from all the dreaded "clock watchers" - not that I use that phrase. And that sort of affectionate after sales service brings me back.
Wow, seriously I had no idea that so many guys don't do the full hour. Not that I could "perform" for a hour. I've never really worked out what percentage of my visit is full-on "sex time", but that's another story. MSOG's are great, and the potential of achieving that is always a selling point, but truthfully I've rarely achieved it. But its nice to know the provider is open to it. I can appreciate that a provider might want to short a visitor who was clearly obnoxious or weird. But the "normal" guy should be granted the courtesy of the time he pays for. Sounds like you've perfected the art.