I have always been a single goal player.  Frankly, I realize now it is my fault.  I assumed if #1 was in the first 5 minutes we would be playing canasta for the next 55 minutes.  until I saw a fbsm lady who advrtised "msog".  I was intrigued. First goal, 10 minutes.  Massage for 40 minutes.  Second goal, I was skeptical,  but wham,  she did it!  Frankly, never has a high end lady ever made the effort to try, or offered. This lady took it as my hour to be pleased and her mision.  Others, it is a routine to get me finished with #1.....

If you know you're hit/miss for the 2nd please share and we can get the 1st one out quick then you can really relax and have no pressure on trying for #2 weather or not it happens! Was this post about me? Ha, kidding (but it applies to me too!). Guys, I always want to try for two and there is NO PRESSURE if it doesn't happen (or does, teehee).

i wouldn't call myself a single goal player, but lately in my old age my second goal is not as flashy, or shall we say, productive as my first.

I've only managed to get off twice in a session on two occasions.  And Gia's method really worked.

i have gotten up to 3 and 4, but i always attribute it to my partner's expertise...

And your apprciated.  We elder statesmen need care and nurturing....lol

Not being as young as I used to be, there have been times when I thought the match might even end "goaless".  I've deeply appreciated the capacity of a few favorite providers (fbsm and fs) to work with me in a way that was never judgmental but consistently caring and encouraging.  When it becomes a "mutual" project, rather than my problem, then that comes about as close to a gfe that you can get.  At least that's been my experience.

They get into their head "oh #2 won't happen, but she can try" instead of relaxing and let your body just respond. You put too much pressure on yourself sometimes to "get there" and then can't because you're worried about NOT making it happen or maybe even just trying too hard.

As a fifty-something hobbyist, I often find myself automatically telling a provider when I arrive on a one-hour appointment that I'm only looking for one pop.  Part of that is because I am worried the session will feel rushed if I don't say something, and I don't want any pressure on either one of us.  If I am in the mood for two pops, I will usually book 90 min or two hours so that we can still take our time.  The surprise has come a few times when a provider gets two out of me in an hour without me even realizing what is happening until she is finished.  So I agree, sometimes we psych ourselves out, and miss out on a little more fun as a result.

Well stated GK.

Like I said in my opening like, I realize now it was my fault.  Limitations on myself amoung other things.  The other comments are what they are...but I am open to discussion.

For me, it's all about the partner.  If she is enthusiastic about chasing down that second pop, the more likely I'll get there.  It's things like dirty talk, teasing, eye contact,  etc that get me over the hump.  If a lady just offers up a unethusiastic hj for pop number two, it'll never happen.

. . . more than two cents worth.  Good point.

Two great points here.

Agree, you know best.....sad...dont know bout that...

goldie is more than a pretty face, great knockers, a tight ass and legs that go on forever (plus a very gifted mouth).