I thought the idea was you do the homework and reach out to the lady that tickles your fancy.

for different folks. if it works for them then kudos ... less effort for the Hobbyists

The "available now" system works both ways.
If a gent posts he's available at the same time a provider is checking it could be a match!
However, he may not like her look or rate or whathaveyou and he will move on.
I think it's a great tool for those who aren't looking for a new ATF but need some physical attention NOW and hope they will get a response.  

I'm sure it's also a good feeing having the providers contact YOU instead of the other way. It feels maybe more like "being chosen" or something perhaps?

I for one always get a rush when I have a new inquiry - it feels good to be the one chose of the hundreds!

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For sure there are not "hundreds" that would qualify as your competition - just sayin