How much do you think you have spent "playing" in your life time. I'm talking strip joints, lap dances, massages, and of course a visit with a lovely lady in private. I have been around a bit and I know I'm way north of $100K. Spent way too much while having fun at strip clubs and trying to close the deal on different dancers. Had some success too. The chase was fun, but expensive at times. Only have dabbled with higher priced "stars" a few times. Made for some fun, but pricey memories.
Yeesh. You don't really want to know! I cringe at the thought of how much I've spent. I know it's at least double what you say you've spent. My back of the envelope calculations put it somewhere north of $250K.
Do I regret it? Maybe. Since I'm on disability now and struggling to pay my bills, I sometimes think it would have been better if I'd put that money into savings or stocks or something. But, on the other hand, I've met a bunch of really super ladies and had some phenomenal times so...The other half, I wasted
I'd say I'm at about a $100,000 but rarely waste $$$ in strip clubs. Although, once in Miami I ran in to a retired Trixie Kelley (not sure if many remember her). She was pumped that I knew who she was and sat with me for a few drinks. She told me that I was her time and took me to the normal couch room for a lap dance. When we got there, she told me that I would need to pay for 3 dances which was only $25 so obliged. When we started, she basically raped me, gave me a BBBJTC and would only except a nominal tip. Very nice.
I came in to the game late so I'm guessing maybe around 25K but if I had got an early start I can easily say I would have hit $100,000.
I would have to say $200,000 to $250,000. Heck, I've spent probably $50,000 on porn stars. I've had some great times and great memories all over the world. In the old days, when strippers were making more money in my area, it was more expensive to get them out of he club. The challenge was part of the fun. Now, between times being tougher and with my greater experience, it's much easier and it costs less. I don't regret it for a minute.
I probably would own this place if I added it up over all my years of hobbying,....but it wouldn't have been this much fun...
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After posting the original message I started doing a little more calculating and I am sure that I'm closer, or past, to the $200K mark than I want to admit. More than I paid for my first house! At my spending peak I would see one or two providers each month to go along with my visits to various strip clubs and the occasional "relaxing" massage. I probably saw around 10 to 12 "stars", or high priced Ladies during this time that would account for at least $20K alone. Being self employed I was able to stop into clubs at lunch time or early afternoon when it wasn't as crowded and the women pounce on a well dressed guy who has a little cash. I enjoyed the attention and the affection of some of these women. At one point I had three women from different clubs who would call me to come see them at the club, or we would meet outside for some private fun. Adding the price of a hotel/motel (not a Holiday Inn...for you old school rappers) just raised the cost. The women were fun and one of them would occasionally bring another friend to join us. It got a little crazy trying to juggle seeing these women at times, especially when one of them switched to dance at the same club of another woman I was "seeing". I would get messages from both to come see them on the same day at the same club. They got a little upset, but we all knew the only real "relationship" we had was with my money and how much I was going to spend on them. Sounds harsh, but it was the reality of the situation. And now, to paraphrase, a lack of money and age has done what morals couldn't do.
Oh yeah, during this time I was actually dating a married woman for several years (and spent a lot of money on) and married as well. I know, I'm a scum bag. Fortunately I got out without anyone being seriously hurt (some emotional pain) and without any lingering physical/medical affects to my play time.
It would be for me since he could barely find his two inch penis and/or ever make a top notch porn star cum multiple times....