Consider the following fact pattern:

You are a member of a faith which is relatively small in numbers.

You've always wanted to spend some time with a provider who is of that faith (because you're one of those mangina hobbyists who really does enjoy the conversation part of the hobby along with the hot crazy sweaty sex part of the hobby).

A provider who is a woman of that faith catches your attention--she seems to be very nice, very attractive--you're interested in meeting her.  You exchange some PMs, find that scheduling will be an issue in the near-term, but a couple of months down the road will not be.  No problem, you can wait..you agree to get back in touch later on.  However:

In the course of these PMs, it becomes apparent that the provider has roots in your hometown, and that while she is not a regular attendee in your church, her parents are, and that she does in fact show up there from time to time (although you have no memory of having ever seen her there, you know that you must have been in the same very large room as her--along with hundreds of other people, on at least a few occasions).  You apprise her of this, and decide to chew on the issue for awhile, as you have no immediate plans to meet in any case.

Question:  Is this such a weird situation that it's untenable?  Yeah, in a perfect world, you might "move on to the next one"--but with the parameter you're after here, there aren't many providers who fill the bill.  You really don't believe it's going to be awkward, as you're unlikely to see her in your church at any point when relatively few are in attendance.

So:  Move on anyway?  Try to schedule a date and see whether or not it's awkward?  Weird situation--first time for everything I guess..