Hello a question to all ..
I have been seeing a provider regularly..at least 2 times a month going on ten years...also I search out someone new..maybe once a month...would this be the norm.or do most clients that see a regular only visit them ? That's my question
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Nothing is better than finding a lady you really click with. So I would think most guys work with having a regular, but not an exclusive regular. Other guy might prefer to move around more. There is one lady I have known for about 14 years. She was the perfect mix, good, location close, and reasonable price with me even getting a discount over time. But I still always saw other ladies and I would think most guys who have a regular would work that way. After all, that regular lady is seeing other guys. There are five others I knew for multiple years. One I lost contact with after she got married. The other four I still know even though all four have gotten out of the business, they are still "friends" of mine. Three of them are still game for seeing me for a roll in the bed even though they are out of the business....assuming schedules line up. So being a long term regular can have plusses sometimes even when they get out of the business.
The only negative, or positive, depending on how complex you want things is there is a risk of getting more involved with a regular than you expected. It does not happen often, but it does happen. One if the four above I ended up getting romantically involved with and she dropped out of the business and we were exclusive for awhile. No regrets about it, we had a lot of fun and we are still friends.
Now it's actually happening a second time. A provider I know has a non-provider friend she relies on for doing doubles with on occasion. Second time I did doubles with them, I just so happed to ask if her friend would like to see me solo sometime? The answer was yes and it took off from there. I have recently been seeing her four to five times a week unless I'm out of town. She even insist in buying my meal sometimes if we go out to eat. Also no problem spending the night at her place if we have plans. The provider who introduced us will be getting out of the business soon, so the timing could not have been better. I'm more than happy to move into an exclusive situation in this case. So I will probably soon be going MIA here for some time.......at least when it comes to posting reviews. But I would not just see a regular provider who is seeing other guys....why should I? Yeah, this lady probably still does an occasional three way with her friend, but I will just ignore that for now, especially with her friend getting out of the business soon.
If a guy wanted to avoid all that and keep things simple and not risk getting emotionally involved, moving around more without having a regular would be one approach. Or stick with regulars who clearly do it as a profession. The first one I got involved with emotionally didn't like being a provider and did it just enough to fill in financial gaps. She liked the way I treated her and I suspect just seemed much more comfortable not having to see other guys yet still get some financial help. The second one technically never was a provider unless you count her helping her friend and, if necessary, would rather just earn minimum wage rather than be a real provider. Of course I also help her with her bills so she also has no need to.
I love my regs as we get to know each other more each time we meet and that we click that's why we keep meeting up.
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