I got to Arizona last night and I'm planning to be here for a week and I excepted an appointment with someone that fully screened. He was charming good looking and asked me if I took electronic payment. That is not my policy however, I trusted him because of how the previous conversation had gone. After fully engaging in the appointment, he asked me how much he owed me and said he needed to go out to his car to get his phone. He also said he wanted to change for work and he did his clothes he got in his car and left. I can explain how it feels but it hurts. I just wanted to warn others. Is there a place where I can do that?
Years ago a provider who had become a close personal friend let a guy talk her into taking a gift card as payment because “it’s the only way I can hide the withdrawal from the wife”. She asked me how does she even get the money off the thing and I was pretty sure I knew how it was going to end. I sat with her at her kitchen table and had her call the 800 number and watched her face as she learned the balance was zero. She called and screamed a bit into the guys VM. It was kind of gut wrenching. I know for her it was more than just what that money would’ve been used for; it felt like…she was violated.
I don’t mean to make this not about you. I’m just saying while I can’t know exactly how you feel, I do understand and I’m sorry this happened to you.
I promise there are lots of good folks here in State48! That guy probably moved here from Cali.
The blacklist question is definitely one for the providers only board. Ask there. If you’re not in there, drop a line to site admin and ask to be. You’re more than qualified according to what I’ve always heard.
Also, and this is very important, I gotta sign up to be notified before your next AZ tour. You could melt a cheese sandwich from across the room.
i dont get why arizonans have such a deep-seated hatred of californians. im a transplant from another state and typically find the californians to be much nicer than the native arizonans.
I’m SO sorry this happened to you! Please feel free to pm me and I’ll even do the BL for you, or I’ll assist you in getting in touch with these resources to help prevent this in the future 🥺
I’m surprised. Hopefully, you change the way you operate. You have reviews here, since 2017, so you’re obviously not new. Why not post his handle to warn other providers, or better to post his real information on the PO forum her to let other women know he’s out here? I don’t trust anyone I don’t know this is why I never relied on references. You really have to get the business aspect & safety as a #1 priority. Really sorry hard life lesson. Count your blessings he could have physically hurt you as well. Your life is important. Value your time because this is your business. Maybe require a deposit to book if you have a problem getting paid upfront. Live & learn. Sending love & a virtual hug!
Tell the PO forum all his information.