Thoughts on racism towards providers?

In ranking 'looks', are Asian/Latina/Black girls routinely given lower 'look' rankings than similar looking White girls?

Get a life...Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has preferences, it isn't racist to have them.

Merely a question, man, just a question, not a statement. You need to get a m-f life.  Anyone have intelligent thougths to the QUERY?  Second query: Do ethnic men, Asian/Black/Latina find some ladies have preferences?  

Maybe this Question better posed on general board. Merely a stupid question, you ass. Think about that.

if a caucasian girl is similiar looking to an ethnic girl how can one be better looking than the other? you just said they're similiar.

10K,

My opinion on the matter is that every person has his or her preference as to what they like. In my experience, asian, latina, and black women have never been given, " a lower look ranking." I think throwing the word racist around will cause some to get defensive, and with good reason. Really what it boils down to is personal preference. If all providers in the business found themselves sensitive to what guys like and don't like...they would be in big trouble. You have to be thick skinned in this business.

Now from a provider's perspective, I personally welcome anyone to spend time with me that has a good attitude. I don't care if you're a siamese twin, if you're nice and respectful...my door is open. Quite honestly, most of the providers I have met in this area that are independent are very open minded. But if they're not willing to see you for whatever reason, then you really wouldn't want to spend time with them anyway, would you? They've just saved you time and money. Or better yet...next time you run into this problem, ask the provider.

I hope this helps.

Good luck, 10K.

...who restrict their clients to whites only.  While I could see these ladies without offending them, I wouldn't do that as a matter of principle.

Just a guess, but I'll bet if you polled, you'd find most users on this board caucasian males.  Bet they're mostly looking at their own race first.  (I'm gonna get blasted for this!)

I disagree. Take a look at Brooke. She is a hottie, and gets the ranking.

Could you give an example of similar?

Yes you are.
A lady is a lady and this Board should not be a place for this discussion.  To each his own and it is not anyone elses business
who likes or dislikes who.
Let's STOP this discussion right now.

You'd be surprised how many caucasion men inquire about if we have any Latina, Asian or Black girls. I don't think it is a race thing as much as it is simply that they want someone 'exotic'... someone different from themselves. It could also just be a curiosity thing. I have never seen it come across as a negative or disrespectful thing.

Was just throwing out an idea on why.  Simple majorities?  I don't know.

There is nothing wrong with a discussion like this. It truly is not racist to discuss race.

It is like watching a boxing match between a white and a black and having the announcer trying to not mention race. That is more racist than saying "Holmes is the black guy and Cooney is the white guy"

I am white, and much prefer Latino and Asian women. My last girlfriend was Black. I do not know why, but that is what I like. I cannot remember the last time I dated or Mongered with a white woman. Does this make me a racist?

Do I need to tread softly here?  As for what providers like? I am white and I don't ever remember a white provider saying she would not want to see black or latino men.  However I have been with several black and latina ladies that have said they will not see black or latino men.  They said it had everything to do with the male atttitude. Not my comments theirs.

As for me I have a problem, I like sexy women, all sexy women.  Now I know what is sexy to me and it is a pretty wide range and if a woman fits into it than I could care less if she is pink.

Is there a difference?  My experience is that in general Latina women are more passionate and therefore great lovers.  Not all mind you and I have had both black and white girls that knock my socks off.  But on the whole Latina women just seem to be more into it and most I have been with just love sex.

I have never been with an Asian woman, could someone help me out there?

SlowStart

Brandy and I were just discussing this last night and although we don't really see a big backlash against ethnic providers we do see alot of negative sterotypical behaviors against BBWs. On more than a few fourms out there, (Not TER)some men find it their duty to hatefully express their narrow minded view of women of size. If it's not your cup of tea then choose a diffrent brew, but don't flame the girl because she doesn't have self esteem issues associated with her body type. In my own reviews here on TER, I have a few less then stellar marks in the looks area (due to my body type) which suprises me since I state clearly on my website that I am a "fat chick" and make no bones about it. Thats why they make chocolate, vanilla and strawberry...and I fall under the strawberry catagory, big, pink and juicy lol. Its all a matter of preference and I live by these words:"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
~Eleanor Roosevelt~

Just my two cents on the whole issue lol.
Hugs and Kisses,
Malissa xoxoxo

Nancy. Cannot remember the name of th spa, but it is on Broadway and Dobson in the strip center next to the Circle K and Whataburger. She is a little olderm, but very warm and good looking.

Maybe you two should stay on TER.  I have never seen that kind of Post here.

-- Modified on 9/10/2003 10:56:14 PM

We live in a world that is divided especially when one can differentiate by a brief glance at skin color (Latina/Latino, Asian, African American).  If you believe otherwise, that's your perogative. Thanks to the big girls, too, for their responses.

-- Modified on 9/12/2003 8:21:02 AM

I removed half of your post. If you can't post an opinion without resulting to name calling and getting belligerent then stay away from these kind of threads.