No worries.

Psh, I hate it when *anyone* doesn't show at the appointed time.

But you should definitely message her and ask what's up.  And if there is no good explanation / make up session coming, post a review and let the rest of us know she might not be reliable.

Waiting on her response. Giving her the benefit of the doubt thus far.

but this has come up on the newbie board. If a guy never actually met face to face with a lady, they won't let him submit a review, even though she NCNS'ed him. Most people suggest someone in this situation should post about it on their local board, which here we are! Some guys name the provider in the thread, others say PM me for the name.

I think you should say who stood you up.  There's no other recourse and no other way to effectively get that information to us.  However, be prepared for the users who will tell you that you shouldn't do it.  The "guardians of the board" will make sure to tell you what you should and should not do.  Yet, there is nothing against the policies of TER to call out someone who stood you up.

Lexi, be careful how you reply. Your subject line makes it look like, on initial viewing, that you are the provider who is NCNS.
Your message body clears it up.

Just saying.

And I think what you did was fine.  I also think hobbyists should be able to out providers who stand them up or treat them badly.  We need protection from bad providers as well.

I have had two no shows this week with no explanation in Tucson. Both have TER reviews, I think they just flaked.