Just curious as to everyone's view on this:

Do you expect the lady to provide alcoholic drinks like wine at her incall?

Even for only one long appointments?

And wouldn't this encourage drinking and driving? Plus hold the gal legally responsible if he gets into accident after leaving her place?

I realize for multi hour appointments, over nights it is expected but wanting thoughts on shorter appointments.

Thanks

But I do appreciate it when I'm offered a beer rather than a bottle of water. I mostly do hr. sessions. A recent favorite is a big fan of IPA's. We often enjoy a couple of beverages during a session. I don't think it encourages drink and drive because they can always say no.

If doing incall I don't expect to be served alcohol, but being offered a bottled water or something refreshing like lemonade is always appreciated.  When I host I usually have wine or refreshments available but I know women are concerned about getting a foreign substance mixed in, so whatever I serve is sealed.

I expect a choice of a beer, soda, or soft drink to be offered for any length of appointment.

But as an adult, I also know how to hold my own, and I expect for the gentlemen to hold his own too.  

...and, even now I still get butterflies before a session and a mixed drink or glass of wine will help calm the nerves.

I do not expect it but then again all of my appointments are mid-morning or early afternoon.  If it was an evening appointment and it was longer than an hour, a drink would be nice.  

Someone that I have seen several times would ask what I would like to drink, or ask if I could pick something up. I never drink to excess whether I'm with friends, my dates, or at home. Yes, I get it is a "business" transaction but I would never hold another responsible for my actions.

Hmmm, a provider giving you drugs that require a prescription, not knowing your medical history and you possibly having a reaction from it?

Unless it's an overnight (as you point out), I'd definitely say no.  Primary reason is it would be during the day, and not that it would ever happen, should LE be around afterwards, the way AZ DUI laws are written, one sip can make you "impaired to the slightest degree" in the opinion John Law.    
They can't get you for fun after the fact if you keep your mouth closed, but they can screw you around for $5000-$10,000 for a DUI charge.

have all of my senses working to enjoy myself and to remember the date. If she has something that is fine and I will partake just a little to be polite.

They always say "No thank you, just water is fine."

You are totally satisfying!!

When doing incall, it is nice if the provider offers a bottle of water. Sometimes, I'm thirsty when I arrive. If I have the time, I will pick up a couple of bottles of water when I'm on my way and offer her one when I get there.

She wants to partake in an adult beverage also. I like wine and will bring some if she's open to it. If she wants to do a shot, a body shot perhaps. I'm up for that. But not to get drunk of course.