Phoenix
If not, I have a gorgeous friend who is well known for this 
Caramel
That's unfortunate 
Caramel
Thank you for sharing that. I find that true sexual fullfillment (which is directly linked to a fullfilled & happy life) comes through exploration & communication. Unfortunately a lot of pros in general are only here to make $$, they don't necessarily care about what you want. I see how difficult it can be for a gentleman (especially one who is kinky) to find someone who is truly here to make your dreams/fantasies come true. I get that all the time. The surprise when I say yes to everything that is asked of me & love every minute. While I do not consider myself a true Domina (as I am more of a sensual/sexual sadist), I like to have the best of both worlds (which also explains why I am a switch depending on who I am with). I wish you the best in your searches love. Thank you again for enlightening us all with your wisdom
Caramel
This is why often an ideal playmate for me also advertises as an escort, even if we're not going to be doing traditional 'escorty' things together. They are just girls who are generally much more open and less uptight about connecting sensually. I've had cases where despite being very specific with someone about our playtime, she just wanted an appointment and after looking on her phone for 1/2 hour just said, 'yeah, I'm not really into that, can I just give you head?". I immediately sent her out the door. Given that I always do 3 hour play sessions, they're not cheap. I've had other very good experiences too, but it's just hard to know in advance. It's also not easy making phone calls where before we know anything about each other I'm having to say "well, I'm really in to X, Y, and Z, what do you think?" as maybe only 30% of the girls I select to contact by filtering are open-minded enough for it, and I have feelings too and don't like getting rejected any more than anyone else does. When people meet me they usually become very comfortable quickly and are open to trying what might be very new to them, but agreeing to a non-vanilla fetish playdate ahead of time with someone they've never met is often an understandably difficult leap, and I'm not going to set up a session with a girl without explaining everything up front in the first place.
