besides personally seeing providers i have a co worker i need to take to a nice strip club with good lapdances

theultimatestripclublist.net   I long ago gave up strip clubs, but the site tuscl.net should have some leads for you

Let me know if need a proper escort...

Goldfingers in SD is my fav in so cal.  It's fully nude and features very hot & young girls with high mileage lap dances. (by CA standards).  There's a bar owned by the same owner with hot bartenders 2 doors down.  (San Diego doesn't allow fully nude & booze under the same roof.)

Avoid the standard lapdance room.  It's an airdance.  Go to the G-lounge.  $120 for 5 songs (6 songs if you wait for the special to be called out.  It's a semi private area w/ no security.  All the girls can grind you to completion there and you can touch them all over. (no kitty touching for most of the girls)  They must wear their bikini while touching you in the G lounge, but they can get fully nude as well by standing a few feet away.