I have never been refused a whitelisting and probably don't ask often enough.  Some providers, if they are not fully familiar with TER may not know how to do it.  I agree, it is an excellent additional verification

I whitelist any gent who has reviewed me, if he hasn't reviewed me, its harder for me to remember to whitelist because I might not remember his TER handle.  (alot of gents dont contact me thru TER they go thru my website or directly email me).

Also are the ladies you've seen all members here on TER? if they aren't members (even if they have reviews doesn't mean they are active here).  If they aren't active on TER, they probably aren't white listing anyone.

I checked out your Profile. You have more than enough reviews and several whitelists. A couple of the ladies from Cleveland, Chase and AD, are in a class by themselves and anybody who sees that those two have whitelisted you, as well as a couple others,  should have no further questions about your integrity. If those credentials are not enough for someone then take a pass and see someone else. Don't sweat the small stuff.

Just an Old, Ugly, Fat Fuck with an opinion.

A companions point of view.

I have no issue white listing a gentleman, if I would highly recommend them to another companion. If on the other hand, the gentleman overstayed his welcome...short changed me...or we didn't click at all, I will not white list him. In addition, approximately once or twice a year, I will go through my white listings and uncheck any gentleman that I haven't seen within the last 12 months. A lot can change in a 12 month period of time, that's why I won't give a referral for a gentleman that I haven't seen in the last 12 months. This reminds me, it's probably about time to go through that list again.

Some companions won't white list you until they have seen you, at a minimum, two times. I don't follow that policy personally, but I do know some that do.

Paris