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Okay so here goes my rant for the day. And this didn't just happen, but every once in awhile it does. Since you guys like when a provider responds to you IF they aren't interested, busy, or have other things going on, can we as providers get the same respect??? I mean really I don't think it's asking too much. Some of you may finally decide to answer our email at the last minute, and since we do have lives, we have either already scheduled someone else, or made other plans. Then you get mad over it...Really??? LOL

We now return you to your regularly scheduled program.

Ally

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Posted By: ASinfulDream
Okay so here goes my rant for the day. And this didn't just happen, but every once in awhile it does. Since you guys like when a provider responds to you IF they aren't interested, busy, or have other things going on, can we as providers get the same respect??? I mean really I don't think it's asking too much. Some of you may finally decide to answer our email at the last minute, and since we do have lives, we have either already scheduled someone else, or made other plans. Then you get mad over it...Really??? LOL

We now return you to your regularly scheduled program.

Ally
Ally needs a hug this morning. :-D

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MollyDaniels1557 reads

Some men don't like to be 'pestered'.  I try to respond, but some slip thru the cracks.

Contrary to popular belief, this is my hobby, not my life-so sometimes I don't respond to texts or emails Instantly.  And I never answer voicemails unless I already know you.

Hell, I learned long ago not to take my hobby phone with me when I visit my friends-they get a kick out of answering it or responding to texts on it, and then I have to try and explain the situation - that my friends are idiots, and no, I never will do _______ sex act will a farm animal.  

Big deal, big whoop.  If one guy gets pissed off, ignore him.  There's plenty more in the hobby sea.  Hell, I would be a millionaire already if I had seen every client that has contacted me.

Can't win them all.



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ASinfulDream1342 reads

Not what I was referring to but I understand that also. I was referring to sending them an email, and if they aren't interested, are busy, or whatever other reason, have the same respect that they want from us to answer them back if we aren't interested, busy, or have other things going on. It isn't that hard, and I consider that part of common courtesy.

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redbeardxyz633 reads

You mean we're not supposed to respond until the last minute??  I didn't realize that.  Jeez, I guess I'll just have to change the way I do things.  I always thought it worked better to set things up ahead of time.  Ah well, live and learn I guess.  ;-)

Sorry you've had some problems, Ally.  Hope they go more smoothly in the future.

Posted By: ASinfulDream
Okay so here goes my rant for the day. And this didn't just happen, but every once in awhile it does. Since you guys like when a provider responds to you IF they aren't interested, busy, or have other things going on, can we as providers get the same respect??? I mean really I don't think it's asking too much. Some of you may finally decide to answer our email at the last minute, and since we do have lives, we have either already scheduled someone else, or made other plans. Then you get mad over it...Really??? LOL

We now return you to your regularly scheduled program.

Ally

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ASinfulDream1448 reads

LOL..smart ass...I would PREFER you set things up ahead of time, because I do have a busy schedule. My thing is you guys complain if we don't email you back, so why do the same to us and not email us back?? Get what I am saying?? Seems like a double standard thing to me, and I find it unprofessional on the guys part. I get I am not everyone's type...that is fine..but IF I am not, or you have other plans, just let me know. Then when you do decide to email me it's too late, and it's sometimes hard for me to do last minute. Then you get upset over the fact that YOU waited too long...LOL  That is what I am complaining or ranting about...

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jangoroncee1538 reads

you didn't responed quick enough are usually arrogant assholes("my time is important,but not yours")or are petulant children emotionally("i want an answer nowwww").imo

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ASinfulDream608 reads

I am glad you nailed it...LOL..That is exactly some of the types that do.

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earthshined1325 reads

their response when contacting them after they've already made the initial request/appointment ?

Only thing that bothers me is making an appt. a few days before and the provider doesnt contact me until 1-2 hrs before the scheduled time. I would probably assume she's gonna cancel and not be prepared to answer messages.

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ASinfulDream1424 reads

Sometimes even before that. And as far as providers contacting you, I always confirm the day before to make sure nothing has changed, and that we are both on the same page. 1-2 hrs before the scheduled time just doesn't cut it for me.

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harryhardwood1367 reads

Ally, if you want a date with me you just have to wait in line just like everyone else.  

Posted By: ASinfulDream
Sometimes even before that. And as far as providers contacting you, I always confirm the day before to make sure nothing has changed, and that we are both on the same page. 1-2 hrs before the scheduled time just doesn't cut it for me.

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ASinfulDream664 reads

Oh I am definitely waiting in line Harry...just let me know when :)

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MollyDaniels746 reads

Posted By: earthshined


Only thing that bothers me is making an appt. a few days before and the provider doesnt contact me until 1-2 hrs before the scheduled time. I would probably assume she's gonna cancel and not be prepared to answer messages.

With pre books, I try to contact the guy the day before or day of to confirm.  I also like it when they contact me to confirm- makes me feel like, 'hey, he remembered! He must be really excited to play hide and seek with me..' Lol.

But I feel the same way-if I contact them to confirm and I don't hear back in a reasonable amount of time, lets say 4-5 hours, then I'm assuming he is going to NC/NS on me.  Sometimes I will try to schedule a 'replacement', but I always inform the 'replacement' of the issue.  And if I finally get a confirmation, I politely cancel the 'replacement'-which already knew he was on 'standby' haha.  Dang-I sound like I'm stacking appts! No, no appt stacking for me.  I need a couple hours to recharge...

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