Just a headsup, had an appointment scheduled with this provider today and drove about 45 minutes to her hotel. Got there, texted her....and nothing. Ended up waiting thirty minutes with a couple texts to her and nothing. Don't know if something happened...maybe she dropped her phone in the toilet. But I really don't like when providers flake out. Not saying she is a rip off or anything as she has really good reviews, just giving a headsup and didn't want to write a 1/1 review for something that may not even be her fault.

Not saying if it is a rip-off or anything.......................so the first thing you do is run back to the regional board and post for all to see.  If the ladies did this every time they were stood up I'm sure the board would be much busier.  Go figure out what happened privately between two adults.  Maybe she ran over with another client because she lost track of time..........whatever.  Now there is little chance of rectifying the situation.  Go jack-off in a corner somewhere and get on with your day.

this isn't a judgment about what did or didn't happen, but if you didn't actually see her, you can't write a review.  It's a TER rule

Without knowing any further details it's premature to assign blame or be derogatory to him. The fact remains that he was "stood up" with no warning or excuse. And what kind of an excuse is that about running over with another client? If anything, that would count against her because the rest of us would like to know if a certain provider makes commitments she can't be trusted to keep.

He needs to try work it out in private first.  The date was on the same day that he posted this.  His first course of action was to come crying to the board when he was supposedly stood up.  I'm not saying that she was definitely in the right, but things happen in everyone's life that can screw things up.  If this were three days later and he posted after her giving him no response then I have no problem with it.  Therefore in my opinion, he is still an asshat.

You missed the point entirely. While I'm not defending his decision to immediately post about it here, his actions are of zero consequence to you. By berating him over something so inconsequential you end up looking worse, not he. Furthermore, you discourage others from posting on a board that's already barely alive. Instead of acting like a child, discourage him politely from jumping the gun and encourage him to follow up with the provider before posting about it.

Exactly.  But he can post here about being stood up

WTF JP. He didn't mention the providers name so why would you give him a hard time. Maybe the provider will see the post and explain herself.  Hopefully she is ok and it would be nice to know that also.

but if he isn't going to discuss exactly who it was that stood him up, then why post here?

She stood him up - plain and simple.  There may be an explanation, but putting the info out there benefits us all that are making decisions about who we should see.

Doesn't it say "Lita" in the subject line?

honestly, I had forgotten that when I wrote the above message. I always expect a website, TER profile, or ad link when guys have experiences like this, since there could potentially be more than one Lita

This is the only Lita I see in Cbus, and she hasn't been reviewed since 2006.  Maybe she stood him up back then and he's just getting around to complaining about it.

That's who I found when I searched too.  Sometimes there's more than one lady that goes by a name, especially when it's a singular first name.  

I tend to agree that there is one asshat who has posted to this thread... twice

I believe this may be the Lita in question.  She advertised in Columbus recently on another site which must not be mentioned... apparently.

Sure you can.   You point out those deals so that others dont waste their time on a total flake