date -check says they cant help me cause I'm retired

this rots

working my ass off and get all the date check I want.  Is grass always greener??

Agency providers from an agency that will work with you regarding references in the future.  Get to be known by the agency owner or booker and get a whitelist or referral from them.  Start screening with a few indies until you get picked and then start collecting references until you are able to see whoever you want.  It's a much more fun way to build a rep than filling out an online form.

I don't know their verification process but these are others you can try.

I've seen dozens of indie and agency girls over the last four or five years and I've only had to provide a reference once. I am self employed which is the same as being retired for purposes of verification.
Start off with agencies and build a rep. OK, so an indie girl here or there may not be willing to see you. Just move on.  It may take some research but hey, you are retired, you've got the time!

point number 5!!!

3 of the 4 means for guys to join, with a free 90 day membership, do not require personal info, so long as a Date-Check listed gal invites you to join beforehand, or a provider you've seen who advertises there verifies you, you're in.  Once you are in the system, they are more than glad to accept your money, until they hear bad reports about you!!!

Just remember, just because you join, doesn't mean that all Date-Check gals will see you.  They can see your profile, and the number of gals who have verified you.  It may take a few before you are truly trusted.

thanks to everyone for their thoughtful responses

much appreciated

i called preferred 411, they said they wanna see my tax returns

YIKES!!!

I am also self employed and I have never found it to be a problem either.

If you can get a few P411 ladies to verify you, then  P411 should be willing to skip the tax returns.

Seeing tax returns is stupid. They are so easy to forge. Just find a form from that year, and sign it.

I've not had a problem getting screened...  maybe I'm just lucky.
 
I tell them I'm retired.
Some want my land line number (I presume so they can do reverse directory).
I offer them my handle on Escorts.com has my bio & reviews & TER handle with reviews.
I offer to meet them in a neutral place if they are more comfortable...  & that has happened.  It was fine.  I've noticed that many can see you from their incall while you make the second call.