and if you do a search on The Erotic Highway Board, there's a good chance you'll find a link on a thread there.

but it would seem to take some of the fun out of it.

I read a lot of reviews with the guy performing DATY. My question is do you really feel comfortable doing it with a provider? How safe is it?  I would like to daty but I don't because  I'm not sure how safe it is.

posted an impressive note on the Newbie board explaining the scientific basis for the relative risks of contracting STDs from various activities.  He was pretty sanguine as long as you avoid bare back fucking.  My recollection is that DATY is not as risky overall as some other activities.  At least I hope so.......  Good luck searching for the thread, I would start searching for references to STD.

And of course, lots of websites post comparisons of STD risks. Some of them are very conservative, which scares the crap out of me when I read them.

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I'm get paranoid about shit like this. Risk vs reward. Thanks for the replies.

obviously feels comfortable.  I love to DATY, esp when she gets pleasure from it.  If anyone feels uncomfortable dining, then the choice not to do it is his.

Remember, this hobby of ours has all kinds of risks, of which this is just one.  Some girls won't do bbbj, their choice, just as it's your choice not to DATY.

Swim

Do I feel comfortable doing it with the fine ladies here? Absofuckinglutely! Don't know how safe it is, but don't really care.  I look at it this way, I am probably more at risk from catching something from my dog who licks himself and then wants to slobber all over me than I am from these ladies. As long as it smells fresh, I'm having me some. Come on, let's face it... We men are the pigs.

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This includes DATY.  You have to decide what risks you are willing to accept.  Bear in mind that even fully protected sex with no DATY is not risk free.  Up to you.

DATY with 60+ ladies and regular checkups....
no problems.

If I wanted to lick plastic I'd go to town on my shower curtains.  Blech

I had a provider back in the late 80's get a little paranoid and asked to use a dental damn for DATY.  It was awful.  We had seen each other 3x before and each time was fine with bbbj and DATY then all of a sudden she git squeamish and asked for the dam and for CBJ.  I never called her again.  She changed the deal mid stream

Not a doctor, and don't understand the science behind bareback fucking being riskier than DATY. Just do NOT get it. If she has a diseased vajajay...doesn't seem to matter to me what touches it...you're gettin' it. But I know nothing.

Absolutely no problem doing that with the providers I've seen.  And I'll gladly do it again!!

I've done DATO in the past too.  And I would do that again as well!!

Still probably worth the risk to me... But some caution should be exercises. Open sores, bad smells, unexplained bumps ect.  

The risks of getting an STD from unprotected oral sex are typically much lower than the risks posed by having unprotected vaginal or anal sex, Warren says.

"If a male is giving oral sex to a woman, I consider that to be a low-risk exposure," Warren says.  

http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/features/4-things-you-didnt-know-about-oral-sex?page=6

Sorry bout the mobile site.